A Prancer left today.......this is very hard

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Marty

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Selling: It wasn't supposed to hurt my heart.

I had her since she was 4 months old. I fulfilled my promise to the former owner that I would do right by her and take great care which I did. For these past four years and trained her up nicely and worked with her daily. She never wanted for a thing. It was time to let her go. She was on and off the market for a long time. I suppose I was considered just too fussy about where she would end up and if references did not check out, no sale. Actually 2 potential sales fell through and that was fine with me. The right person finally did come along with references that I'd love to have myself, from people that I trust very much.

As I got up early for her going away groom-a-thon I had a melt down. I wasn't supposed to feel so bad about letting her go. Especially to a wonderful new home in Brooksville, Florida. She's going to join a new little herd in a fabulous place with people that will spoil her rotten. They are going to breed her and maybe have the grandkids show her too. I know I will be able to sleep at night as I made a good choice.

Ebbie left here all clipped up real pertty with pink bows in her mane, tail, and forelock sporting a new halter and lead rope. She had luggage. I bought a nice new container with a lid and filled it with her grain. I made a notebook with her picture and name on the cover and filled it with her extended pedigree, pictures of her sire and dam and their extended pedigree, her health records, coggins, health paper, feeding instructions, daily background routine. I put that in a little pink decorator shopping bag along with her stall namesign that I took off her door, some little bottles of her favorite shampoo and conditioner, and some of her favorite treats.

As we headed out the big gates she knew something was going on right away. Prancers have never been outside the big gates so she got very dancey and prancey and nervous as she approached the trailer. We heard the other Prancers still back in the barn calling to her and she'd answer them back and that's pretty much when I had my second melt down blubbering all over her. She didn't want to get in and when she finally did she pawed and screamed her head off. After the trailer went down the road I let the Prancers out and they did laps around the barnyard still hollering and looking for her. I've been sitting on my stool for about a half and hour hugging Merry Beth and Chrissy. Those are my two "little red haired girls" that follow me everywhere. Chrissy still sucks on my knee and Merry Beth liked to load up and lay across my lap. I assured them that they aren't going anywhere because I sensed they were nervous now too. That helped a lot having them to hug on.

As far as the shipper, they kept in wonderful contact with me. I got emails and phone calls from their dispatcher and they arrived in a timely manner. They are "Haul Wright" transport. I have their cell number also which they gave to me just in case I want to give them a call to see how Ebbie is doing en-route. . They encouraged me to call and said it would be no bother if I wanted to check on her.

I'm going to go "dry it up now" as Jerry would say and clean my stalls and see where the heck Timmy went off to. I hope he's not off stealing hubcaps anywhere..............

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I know just how you feel.I think the longer you keep a horse the more difficult it is to let them go..I would rather sell my babies when they are young.I try to find really good homes when I sell and then it is sometimes not as difficult.I like it when I sell to someone where I can go visit, but that isn't always possible.Hug your other babies Marty.Isn't it funny how they react when a horse leaves or a new one comes in.And there are people who have the nerve to call them "Dumb Animals."
 
I'm sorry it's so difficult for you right now, Marty. {{{hugs}}}. I can't begin to tell you how many times I've watched a trailer leaving with a horse I've sold in it and just cried. It sure helps when you KNOW that your horse is going to a super new home though.

Ebbie looks adorable.
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Marty,

I am very sorry that your heart is breaking over the sale of Ebbie but you know in your heart that you did the right thing for her and she is off to a wonderful new home where it sounds like she will be spoiled rotten!Cheer up! She will always be in your heart!!!

I hope your heart stops hurting soon, Ebbie would not want you to be sad for her after all you did the best job picking a new and wonderful home for her!

Take care,

Tammie~
 
OHHH Marty...{{ HUGS}}

I know how you feel. I just sold Spice 2 months ago and my heart broke. It helps to know they go to a good home.
 
Marty, I understand completely how you feel! Thats why my "just a few minis" have now reached a LARGE number. I just have the hardest time selling and parting with them. I had one sale go bad, he was sold and with in 2 months resold..I had no idea at the time, after I was assured he would be in a forever home, all the best of care, etc..then this person turned out to be a dealer! He would of never been sold. Now referances are checked and double checked, before I can even think about parting with one. Now, have you found Timmy? He's probably out and checking things out for the arrival of his new little companion. Or did you find some hubcaps laying around?? :bgrin If you need a shoulder to cry on, I'm home today. Corinne
 
LOL Marty I know it is hard to sell a horse but just think of how happy the buyer will be when she opens up the trailer and sees little ebbie, all groomed and in pink
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and knowing she is all you said and more.

thinking of how happy she will be in her new home and how loved she will and how happy you made her buyer should make it easier.
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It's sooooo hard, Marty! I just sold my first horse a few months ago - my little yearling. I groomed her, gave her big kisses and told her to "have a nice life"...
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Liz R.
 
Awww heck Marty, now I'm crying! It is one of the hardest things to let a beloved friend go. BUT you waited til the perfect home came along. Her new owners will keep in touch and she'll be ok. Ask Ginny how I was when she took 4 of mine last August. Talk about a meltdown! When I sold Hopes, as he drove off I was sure I had made a terrible msitake but his new mom just loves him so. I get pics and updates on all my kids sold or traded. Makes it wonderful to have that and new friends too. Hug your darlins and dry your eyes. It'll be ok.
 
I have sold a few and it is super hard to trust that they will be safe and loved, and I have had some fall through as to how I thought they would end up! And she looks so cute who could not just love her to peices! Im glad you found her the right home, Im sure she will be happy there!

You are in great hands with Hauled wright. They are donating their services to haul the 2 disneyland rescue minis to their new home as well! :aktion033:

I can attest that Magic has cried a time or 2 when I have taken a few of her babies, she probably thought I didn't see her but I did!
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: Aww gee Marty, I wish I could give you a hug you sweet sweet woman! You take care and keep busy for a while and look forward to that new baby coming soon..


it will fill a new place in your heart.

thinking of you,

Maxine
 
Gee Marty, you made me cry...again! When I got into mini's as a business I was concerned about how I'd feel about selling them. I always hated selling my big horses for whatever reason. I have someone interested in my first born now. Mentally he's always been on the sales list in my mind from the day he hit the ground but I don't know if that will help or not when he actually goes out my gates. The only thing I do know is horses are amazingly adaptable! When I gave up riding I gave my gelding that I had bred and raised to a friend. I thought he'd miss me or at least his stable mate but he's just happy as a clam in his new home with his new friends.....didn't take long at all for him to adjust.
 
Marty, your story brings back memories of when "Flash" (Last Chance Heart of the Storm from Mona) came to me. When the shipper arrived she told me she (the shipper) had to wipe away a tear when Mona put him on the transport to come to me and said "Now Flash, you behave and be a good boy for your new mommy". Brought a tear to my eye when the transporter told me that when they got to my place. I think no matter how many times you go through this as a seller it's never easy until you see the happiness you bring to the buyer at the other end :lol: . I just love my Flash to bits, he is such a sweet sweet boy and am grateful to Mona for having parted with him so Marty look at it from another angle, the smile and joy you have brought to the buyer in Florida.
 
Marty.....I also sympathise.......it is soooo hard to give babies up.....even when you know all along you will eventually. BUT! I have to say that I am glad you are feeling it :eek: because that is what makes you a top of the range mini breeder person!!!! If you didnt have that heart you would have sold her to the first person that came along and now she has a wonderful life ahead of her.....she is a very lucky girl to have had you in her life. And I had wondered what everyone meant about "scrunchies"...and now i know!!
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She looked REALLY pretty!!!! You have done a good thing!!
 
HI MARTY, JUST MY TWO CENTS WORTH,BUT IT MUST BE LIKE WHEN A KID LEAVES HOME FOR YOU,BECAUSE THEYVE LEARNT ALL THEY KNOW FROM YOU, AND YOU DO THEM UP LIKE LITTLE GIRLS{EVEN THE BOYS} LOL BUT AT LEAST YOU KNOW WHO HAS YOUR KID,AND THATS WHY I CANT BREED FROM MY MARE,I JUST DONT HAVE ANYWERE FOR A FOAL,AND I JUST KNOW ILL NOT BE ABLE TO LET GO, ITS LIKE WHAT EVERYONE SAYS HERE TO THE NEWBIES,THERE LIKE POTATO CHIPS,YOU JUST CANT HAVE ONE, I WISH ALL THE MINIS OUT THERE THAT ARE UP FOR REHOMING COULD FIND A HOME THE WAY YOU LOOK OUT FOR YOURS,THEN THERE WOULDNT BE AS MANY RESCUES, WELL DONE MARTY YOU WERE VERY BRAVE,AND YOU WEE HORSE WAS A BRAVE LITTLE PRANCER AFTER ALL, TAKE CARE
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Awwww, I would've been blubbering right next to you if I'd've been there ...what with you packing her little suitcase with goodies, putting sweet little bows and ribbons in her hair and taking her picture...well such a cute little face...it's just bittersweet. Once she gets to her new home I'm sure she will settle in nicely. And with her new family from what you describe....she cold not have gone to a better place in better hands. You'll be ok......once them happy pictures start to roll in....you will be ok!
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Aw, Marty. Letting the babies (and they're all our babies) go is so hard. But you did everything right, and it sounds like she's going to a fantastic home where she'll be happy as can be, and she'll always know you loved her, and did the best for her in finding her a great new home.
 
Yep sad every time, harder sometimes..... We recently sold some that we bred, raised & showed & owned that were 12-14 years old. Sure was sad to see those go. I felt bad as our home was the only one that they ever knew. Felt like I was deserting them. I find it much easier to sell our few sale horses as weanlings now.
 
Been there and done that! Oh MArty I feel for you, it's a bad feeling when they leave. The way the other horses feel is always so sad to me, they are anxious and uneasy and even though I've explained it ahead of time it's a sad time. But I'm weird that way! So MArty be happy you finally found her a good home I am happy for you. Hugs.
 
Oh Marty. You almost had me bawling my eyes out again for the mare I sold last year. Maggie went to an incredibly good home, but still. Her mom was the first mini mare we bought and we bred her (the mom) to our first stallion. Maggie was the second foal from that cross and just a beautiful little girl. I was there when her mom was bred, I was there when she was born, I loved her so much (and still do). She was the first horse that Alexis showed all by herself, and my mom got to see them in the show ring two months before she passed away. (ok, now I'm crying big time!) Circumstances last year were such that we sold several very good mares. I miss them all, but Maggie still makes my heart weep.

I know just how you feel, my dear friend, and my heart goes out to you. <<<<<<<<<<HUGS>>>>>>>>>
 

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