Little Wee Horse Farm
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Hi All -- Those of you that know me, know I do this every spring. If you've read it too many times before, please ignore it. But, if you are new to minis, please read. I write something new every year, but it always has the same message.
Breeding horses, especially minis, is not for the faint of heart. I'm no one's teacher or leader, just someone who has been doing this a long time.............The expectations of a foal are so great.............only matched by the disappointment and heartbreak if something goes wrong.
I'm just suggesting that if you can't take what might be a bad outcome to a pregnancy for your mare, don't breed, just because it seems like "the thing to do" with minis. Anything can happen with a pregnancy. You can have the best foal ever in the world, or you can have heartbreak and a lost life.
I'm not trying to be cruel, just realistic. Anyone should consider very carefully all the facets before breeding their mares. Here's a question for ya: If every thing that could possibly be perfect is, then what? Have you considered what you will do with the resulting foal? Will you keep it? Do you have the financial means to keep it? The facilities? Will you sell it? Can you? Just things to consider. That baby, if it's lucky, will live 20-25 years.
The worst excuse I EVER heard for wanting a foal was that a couple wanted their children to experience the "miracle of birth." These people had NO plans for what they would do with the foal itself! They had been at our place looking to buy a bred mare. I turned down the sale, but told them I'd call them to come back when a mare was foaling, so the kids could "experience" it. I really meant that.
But, you also need to ask yourself, do I have the knowledge to handle a foaling? Yes, absolutely everyone has to start somewhere. Read everything you can. Talk to breeders & get their knowledge if you can.
Even with the best laid plans & hopes & dreams, things can go wrong. This is just a plea, asking that you are sure you want that foal & that you can handle whatever comes. With every foaling, and I'm not kidding, I find myself standing outside the stall looking at the mare who is about to enter the biggest most exciting most trying experience of her life -- "well, it's just you & me, girl." I know my vet is around the corner. But I also know it's basically just me & the mare. It's scarey but it's more than wonderful when things go well. It's devastating when they don't.
I just ask that you are sure that the mare should be bred in the first place & that you do your best to make sure YOU can handle it. Don't take breeding horses as just something to do. You've got to make it a science & even then, with all of the best knowledge & hope, it can go wrong. Just please be aware of this. I've said it many times before: Breeding horses is NOT for the faint of heart. I dunno why, but I feel this way every year at foaling time. I know I'm in for challenges of my own.
I wish ALL of you the best in this foaling season. I hope your little dreams will be trotting around the pastures in good health & happiness. Please wish me the same!
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Breeding horses, especially minis, is not for the faint of heart. I'm no one's teacher or leader, just someone who has been doing this a long time.............The expectations of a foal are so great.............only matched by the disappointment and heartbreak if something goes wrong.
I'm just suggesting that if you can't take what might be a bad outcome to a pregnancy for your mare, don't breed, just because it seems like "the thing to do" with minis. Anything can happen with a pregnancy. You can have the best foal ever in the world, or you can have heartbreak and a lost life.
I'm not trying to be cruel, just realistic. Anyone should consider very carefully all the facets before breeding their mares. Here's a question for ya: If every thing that could possibly be perfect is, then what? Have you considered what you will do with the resulting foal? Will you keep it? Do you have the financial means to keep it? The facilities? Will you sell it? Can you? Just things to consider. That baby, if it's lucky, will live 20-25 years.
The worst excuse I EVER heard for wanting a foal was that a couple wanted their children to experience the "miracle of birth." These people had NO plans for what they would do with the foal itself! They had been at our place looking to buy a bred mare. I turned down the sale, but told them I'd call them to come back when a mare was foaling, so the kids could "experience" it. I really meant that.
But, you also need to ask yourself, do I have the knowledge to handle a foaling? Yes, absolutely everyone has to start somewhere. Read everything you can. Talk to breeders & get their knowledge if you can.
Even with the best laid plans & hopes & dreams, things can go wrong. This is just a plea, asking that you are sure you want that foal & that you can handle whatever comes. With every foaling, and I'm not kidding, I find myself standing outside the stall looking at the mare who is about to enter the biggest most exciting most trying experience of her life -- "well, it's just you & me, girl." I know my vet is around the corner. But I also know it's basically just me & the mare. It's scarey but it's more than wonderful when things go well. It's devastating when they don't.
I just ask that you are sure that the mare should be bred in the first place & that you do your best to make sure YOU can handle it. Don't take breeding horses as just something to do. You've got to make it a science & even then, with all of the best knowledge & hope, it can go wrong. Just please be aware of this. I've said it many times before: Breeding horses is NOT for the faint of heart. I dunno why, but I feel this way every year at foaling time. I know I'm in for challenges of my own.
I wish ALL of you the best in this foaling season. I hope your little dreams will be trotting around the pastures in good health & happiness. Please wish me the same!
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