my grandma passed

[chevycouple]

The grandma with cancer past away yesterday evening. They said she had a few months so I didn't make it there. We were going to celebrate thanksgiving. so I never got to say goodbye.

 

[luvmycritters]

Oh I am so very very sorry...

 

[Jill]

I'm so sorry

 

[lyn_j]

[SIZE=14pt]So sorry about your grandma, Mine would be 99 today in fact. She died 10 years ago Nov 4th. You can still say goodbye to her ..... Her spirit will know. I believe that God lets those who have passed know the things we need to tell them. It will help you feel better. In your quiet time just talk to her.[/SIZE]

Lyn

 

[RAPfrosty]

I know exactly how you feel! My grandmother just passed away a month or so ago of Lukemia. She was fighting it for a little less then a year, although we knew she didn't have much time left because she had to stop the chemotherapy due to a heart attack. If you want to talk, feel free to PM me. I'm so sorry for you loss.

 

[Miniv]

I'd like to DITTO what Lyn posted.

Not being able to say "good bye" in person makes it hard for closure, I know. I went through that with my mother. But yes, please talk to her.....write to her in a journal. She will hear you, I guarrantee it.

For me, I was blessed with communication from my mother in Spirit and was able to make closure weeks after she crossed over. I hope you can be blessed in a similar way.

MA

 

[minisaremighty]

I'm so sorry...

...I do agree with Lyn and MA. She will hear you. She knew you loved her, that's what matters. I prefer not to say "goodbye" anyway. I told my father "see you later" when his time came. I'll meet up with him again when it's my time.

Hugs....

 

[nootka]

I am so sorry for this. I can feel the sadness in your post, especially about not getting to say goodbye. I can also tell you your grandmother would not want you to feel badly about something you had no control over.

Instead, she is most certainly receptive to any and all communication you have with her, now. It is a healthy part of your grieving to "talk" to her or write it out and I am sure that she will somehow know what you most need her to know.

It will help to bring you peace.

Please accept my condolences. I miss my own grandmother...she's been gone ten years as of July 3. I was in Disneyland w/my husband and son when she died and I never really got to say goodbye, either, though I know she was aware that I needed to, she gave me that chance.

Take care,

Liz M.

 

[CAM]

I am so sorry for your loss. It is always hard if we don't feel we got to say our goodbye before they pass. I too have lost a grandmother and a father recently and it is never easy.

 

[Candleliteranch]

I'm so sorry.........

 

[Valerie]

Hugs to you, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. As the others have posted, you can say goodbye anytime, in many different ways, and your Grandmother would understand. Thoughts & prayers being sent your way.

 

[mountain_waif]

....

 

[jdomep]

I am so sorry...

 

[Robin1]

I am so sorry for your loss. I too agree with Lyn and MA, she will hear you. I also agree with minisaremighty, you will see her again.

Robin

 

[SunQuest]

I am so sorry. My sympathies to you. Please know that it is never to late to say goodbye. She knows how much you loved her and she knew that you were planning on seeing her at Thanksgiving . But I bet she also didn't want your holiday to be a sad one with everyone concerned about her being ill, so maybe this was her gift to you? At least I would look at it as her gift to you. You all will be able to gather and celebrate the good things and not have the holiday linked to her passing.

Many many hugs, and may you all find peace in the days ahead.