things happen when they should

[mrgizzmoe]

it seems to me that for the most part things in life happen when they should. either when your ready and dont know it or something. i dont know if this makes sence but from things that has happened to me i have never had to face anything before i was ready enough for it. just wanted to see if anyone eles understood what i mean.

thanks

James

 

[Anne]

I'd disagree, things "happen" sometimes you're ready, sometimes they come totally out of the blue.

If you "deal" with it the best you can, I guess you can rationalize and say you were "ready", there are people out there and things that happen that I don't think anyone can be "ready" for.

Just my opinion.

 

[mrgizzmoe]

i can agree with that. its just my experence that i am going from. thanks

james

 

[KrisP]

I understand what you're saying James, and sometimes even if you don't understand it at the moment when you look back you see that it WAS for a reason, whatever it is/was.

I've had things happen in the past that completely turned my life upside down, but now looking back they helped shape me into who I am today and I learned from them.

krisp

 

[Buckskin gal]

James, You are very lucky if you have things happen only when you felt they should and you were ready for it. Unfortunately not all of us feel that way. I had things happen to me as a child that no child is ready for and it's impact has forever been a huge problem for me. On the other hand I hear a number of people say "everything happens for a reason" . Yes, things happen for a reason but that does not mean that the reasons are good...it is only explainable, with good reasoning. Many things happen to people that cause them to take their life or cause them to do harm to themselves or others. Hope you understand what I mean. Mary

it seems to me that for the most part things in life happen when they should. either when your ready and dont know it or something. i dont know if this makes sence but from things that has happened to me i have never had to face anything before i was ready enough for it. just wanted to see if anyone eles understood what i mean.

thanks

James