I agree it can be a great experience. Of course grooms usually do not stay in the hotel at big shows they are in the barn with the horses.
Often you have to deal with some snotty people as you get the horse ready so they can come ride- then you untack it and put it away. That was hard for me to see they didnt love their amazing horses the way I did.
It is a lot of stress and responsibility to have very expensive horses in your care and make sure they are spotless and show ready in appearance at all times. You never know when an owner will show up and you can bet that horse needs to be wrapped- clean and shiny and ready to work.
They didn't put you in hotels, Lisa? All of the barns I've known have had their grooms in hotels/motels during shows. During our stay in Florida us grooms got a whole house
Maybe we're spoiled in Ontario
Unless a horse was sick (required round-the-clock care) we stayed in some nice digs. Then one of us would do night check at 11:00pm (blanket if necessary, feed hay/water, just make sure all is well).
All of that said it was a wonderful experience I learned so much and loved every minute of it. I could never have learned what I did taking lessons or just hanging around the barn. I got to work some beautiful animals and met some great people. All in all hard work very hard work and fun work I loved it probobly some of the best times of my life