Still no Genie Bras! I hope they get here today!!!
Sandy, what helped me get started was there is a boutique about an hour and a half from here, and I went there and tried on different styles and they helped me pick out a couple. Then after that, I just ordered my own online. One thing that helped with being able to try them on in the shop (maybe you can internet search "wig salon", etc.) is that some styles I imagined I'd really like did not look good on me when I tried them on in the store.
There are two brands I really like, and they all have adjustment straps so they can fit a variety of sizes. My mom is my "partner" when it comes to the wig thing and she has a smaller head and the main brand I like is also her favorite. They fit us both -- hers just on a "tighter" setting and mine on a looser. We don't share wigs, but often buy the same styles (in different shades).
Raquel Welch is the wig brand I realy like the most. They are VERY light weight. If you look on YouTube, you can see videos of wigs, and how to sew the clips into the wigs (I think this is a must-do). These are good links for the Raquel Welch Wigs:
http://www.wigs.com/
http://www.wigsalon.com/
If you get the "mono top" or "mono cap" wigs, it looks like an actual skin part under the wig and I recommend that. They even have ones now if you do not want to wear bangs where the hairline looks like it's growing right out of your skin. I always wear bangs, but my mom has some of this new type and it's amazing!
Then there's another line I like, which is much less expensive, but heavier. It's a line called "Forever Young". These wigs are actually less than $50/each, where the Raquel Welch ones are around $300. They have skin parts (not the same as a mono top, but visually looks pretty much the same). They can be pretty shiny, but if you wash them a few times, it takes away the unnatural looking shine, plus I recently learned you can use a tee tiny bit of corn starch or baby powder (they make something called a "wig wand") to mute the shine until they're washed enough. Because these are so much cheaper, and you usually cannot return wigs once purchased, it might be a good place to start -- just know the Raquel Welch wigs are a lot lighter weight if you find the Forever Young wigs to be too hot or heavy. Here's a place I order this brand from:
http://www.voguewigs.com/
Some good things to have would be those wig clips -- about $8 for 40 of them on Ebay (get larger vs. smaller -- the 1"+ ones are more comfortable and sew three in -- one on each side, and one in the back), a foam head or other stand, possibly a "wig wand" (inexpensive). For shampoo, I just use a mild shampoo + conditioner (2 in 1, not a separate conditioner) or a shampoo for dry hair. They do sell wig shampoo, but you can use mild regular shampoo with equal results. To wash them, you just put a little shampoo in the sink, fill the sink with cool - luke warm water, swish the brushed out wig around and let it sit in there about 10 minutes. Then rinse and put on a stand to dry -- not to brush until dry.
I'm hoping there will be a salon you can go to in person to try different styles and colors. Their wigs are more expensive (about 25% more than you'd pay online), but it helps a lot because you'll probably leave with your first wig or two, but mostly with a good idea of what you would like when it comes to ordering online.
Also, search YouTube for Raquel Welch wigs, Forever Young Wigs, How To Sew Clips Into Wigs, etc. That will help to give you a good idea. I got lucky having my mom and also the boutique that was close enough. But the videos give you a good idea of what to expect. Some are made by the companies and are very professional, others are just made by people who like wigs and those are good ones, too!
Good luck!!! I'm excited to hear if you try one and what you think. They've really improved my life and my level of frustration getting ready in the morning. Big time savers, and now I don't have to have a temper tantrum or feel embarrassed b/c I hate my real hair. I just LOVE my wigs!!!