Melinda Dean said:
Years ago, I made a bucket list, and I have marked them all off now. Time to start a new one.
Old list...
Go to Europe-Check
College -check
Raise and train my Quarter Horse baby, have him professionally finished-check
Pay off training and show barn fees-check
Saw article about minis... decided to have one... one day.
Get out of debt-check
Nursing school at 51 years old, graduate-Check
Fly in small airplane (bad fear of heights.. big challenge...did it,
but never again!) -Check
Buy first mini horse-check
Buy second mini horse-check
Buy mini foal to raise-check
Here comes the new list.... Have mini foal (now 2) professionally trained for single, pair, and tandem...... then learn how to harness and drive him as such! That should keep me busy until I am 65.
Now THAT'S a bucket list, and a great attitude to boot! Bucket lists should be about taking all the things you always wished you could do, all the things you regret not doing, and making them happen.
wcr said:
One life lesson I have learned is that you can have a plan but be willing to take the fork in the road because it isn't about the destination, it's about the journey.
So true.
I've been pretty good about making things on my list happen with the horses (traveling to Kentucky to attend the National Drive twice now, taking Kody to California to compete once, having one fairy tale season with each of my competition horses [spyder and Kody] where we won every single thing we entered and could apparently do no wrong) but I'm not as far on the rest of my life list. I decided that what we put our energy into is what will come to fruition so I made a bucket list a year ago and am trying to keep it in the front of my mind at all times.
I crossed off a big one last August- travel to the UK and Ireland. It was even better than I could have imagined because I went with a good horse friend and we stayed with folks we'd met on LB and other forums that were all horse-crazy too. It was an amazing three weeks!
That did put me a little further behind on my current Hot Item- being debt-free.
I have always wanted to take a roadtrip across the U.S.
I'd like to stay at a dude ranch in one of the western states (Wyoming, Nevada, Colorado, Montana, etc.) and do a cattle roundup.
I want to see the fall leaves in New England.
I want to camp in the Red Rock Canyons and spend time in the southwest.
I want to visit Mackinac Island, where cars are not allowed and everything is done by horsepower.
I want to live in a small coastal town for at least a few months. Preferably in a little apartment over Main Street, haunting the local bookstore and farmer's markets and music festivals and such. This will be my Bohemian period!
I want to vacation in Bora Bora. I saw someone's honeymoon pictures from there and thought "That place is unreal! It's like somewhere from a postcard." So although I have no clue where it is, I added it to my bucket list.
I want to live somewhere with small native lizards. Love those things!
See the 4th of July fireworks in NY City.
Visit Amish country.
Parachute from a plane (and survive!)
Learn to play guitar.
Get lessons in singing and running, the kind you would have gotten on your first day of Chorus or Track in high school and I never did.
Learn to paint or ballroom dance or build wooden cabinetry. Something with my hands.
Take a horse of any breed to a national competition and place Top Ten.
Attend the Walnut Hill Pleasure Driving Show. (This one's pretty easy and I suspect I'll do it in the next couple of years.)
Zip line through a tree canopy.
See LOTR sites in New Zealand and tour the country.
And I'll steal: Go through a wilderness survival training camp.
Doesn't life seem exciting when you ponder this sort of stuff?
And there is nothing as fulfilling as making your dreams happen.
Leia