Jess, yes,you will need to wait for heather. She will post a link and you need to be there as its only good I think for 30 min. She then logs in or hijacks your computer and does it all from her location..she takes control of your mouse and sets the color,viewing all the computer wiz things. then you are set to go. If you set private IMO and will be more trouble than its worth b/c then you have to link to other computers. Really no one cares what you wear...I was very self conscious at first but these are all really good people and all they want is to see a beautiful baby...and to help watch for you...i say...make it public and have fun with it!!