bluerogue
Well-Known Member
Well, I have to say I support your decision. You knew the horse best. If you tried for 3 years to help her over her issues, you tried. How many people would spend 3 years trying to help in that situation? In your place, I probably would have made the same decision. A horse (even a mini) who tries to really hurt someone is a danger to anyone who handles them, or comes in contact with them. That is not a horse I can sell, to anyone, with a clear conscience. That's also not a horse I would want around my family.
I had a sort of similar situation, but my mare wasn't dangerous the way yours was. She has an extremely high flight response. She won't fight, she'll just try to get away. She has knocked me over more times than I care to admit. But she never tried to hurt me. It took me 6 years, but she can be safely handled now, without getting scared (I do still go slow with her). That said, I would never let a child handle her, or a beginner. She will always have a high flight response. She will always be easy to scare. But she's happier now, and I'm happy for her.
I had a sort of similar situation, but my mare wasn't dangerous the way yours was. She has an extremely high flight response. She won't fight, she'll just try to get away. She has knocked me over more times than I care to admit. But she never tried to hurt me. It took me 6 years, but she can be safely handled now, without getting scared (I do still go slow with her). That said, I would never let a child handle her, or a beginner. She will always have a high flight response. She will always be easy to scare. But she's happier now, and I'm happy for her.