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krissy3
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When you have a serious question , and really need help , and some senior member uses the "quote" button and rips into you? I find this forum to be about the friendliest, supportive and helpful one out there, but, man ..oh ..man, some of those big horse forums have a lot of senior bullies on them. And oh my gosh , if you try to defend yourself by writing back , they bully you even more. I wish the quote button was not an option , or that people would get down off their high horse ( literally ) and really give sound advise without telling the poor topic starter exactly what she did wrong. If someone is asking for advise they obviously know there is something wrong with the picture, dont ya think ?? Why make them feel worse, by rubbing their faults in their face , and all over the web for everyone to read. This is why I like this forum the best....you can get good info, and 90 % of the people are genuine and want to help rather then making you feel like a looser, idiot horse person. I was on a farrier forum and some poor guy had a question and the farriers just tore into him...his question was never answered , and I am sure he felt badly for even asking ...Why do you think we have these bullys? Why do you think they need to be right all the time? Its sort of like the reality shows , now they are finding them to be quite hurtful to some people , I think if we are not nicer to people with less expierence we will be like those reality shows , with people having mental breakdowns.
What do you guys think ?How many of you have been bullied??
What do you guys think ?How many of you have been bullied??