I got mine at Prime Design, scroll a ways down the page and you will see the nylon overlay halters. They looked great on my horses, I have 2 black with gold and a black with silver. They werent' real expensive and I can wash them if necessary.
thanks for all the suggestions, i have looked at all the sites and they all have nice halters but i was really after one like in the pic i put up. with rows of diamonds on them.