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FFFoxyGal

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and Fred thinks that I am insane! :new_shocked:

I told them this morning of my plans for this farm,....and that is what they said to me. :eek:

I want to cut down some of the bushes around here to make more yard space,.....and move the 2 sheds over by the barns,....I want a paige wire fence for Foxy and baby,...with painted fence posts and rose gardens everywhere,....
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I want to paint our house and barn MATCHING colors,.....and landscape like crazy and totally fence in our entire property with gates at our driveway that open and close to let vechicles in,.....so that our dogs can have access to our entire property without fear of them going on the road.
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but,..my family thinks that I am nuts
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Absa- blooming- lutely!!

You go girl, if you do not dream how can you have dreams come true????

It sounds great to me, they are obviously worried that the next thing is going to be their work rosters
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Ahh dreams are great l've learned to dream in steps not to upset my other half all at once this way takes longer but the end result is the same. Dream on. :lol: :lol: :lol:
 
Actually you are not dreaming the impossible.

Tell them not to look at the big picture, but rather focus in one one project at a time. Start with the smaller things that you can do on your own, then go from there. Might take you years and years but it can happen for you.

Set your sights high and settle for the best you can do.

My place was a falling down junk yard when we moved here. No pasture to speak of, unless you consider acres and acres of garbage on grass a pasture. Took us three years of hauling out stuff to the dump and burning off what junk we could here. There is always plenty to do and things I want to do, but that takes time and money. But we have come a long way baby from where we were.

Believe in your dreams.
 
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I don't think you're crazy at all! Your mistake was in presenting the "big" picture instead of breaking it down into smaller pieces like Marty said. I had a "big" picture in my head(my husband has no clue) and we're probably half-way there now. Just have to keep knocking off smaller projects one at a time! This spring I have one more fencing project and then the fencings done :bgrin ; and I'd really like to put a new roof on the barn.

Good Luck with all your projects!
 
Hi Terri, You just go right ahead and dream, and tell your daughter you are going to smack her on her head....if she interfers with your dreaming :bgrin
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: :lol: If we dont dream about different things, I think the majority of us wouldnt have half of what we do. I am still dreaming of SOMEDAY (yeah--probably in my next life
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: ) of having my heated indoor arena again. I talk about it yearly, but it will probably never happen, but it sure is a nice dream...oh yeah, I would like to have a BIG log home to go with that dream
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:, Bob answer the "bigger of a house you have the more stuff you collect and keep"(???????..and I do remind him, I kept him for 36 years.. :bgrin ) the barn, well..I'm content with our big and small barns, but gosh..a heated one would REALLY be so nice! So see, we all dream. Now go grab another cup of hot chocolate and some cookies and continue your dream, which I think you will make happen....a little at a time, but it WILL happen. Corinne
 
:lol: Drop them all on their heads, that way you all can be crazy together and accoplish the dream together. :lol:

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You keep dreaming and eventually you'll make it all come true.

I know I've nearly given my husband heart failure a few times, when I've told him things I'd like to have.

One day we were driving to town, we drove by a huge indoor arena; I said "I want one of them, someday", well he about went in the ditch. There are a lot of things I would love to have, but for us location and finances don't allow; so we make compromises.
 
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but,..my family thinks that I am nuts
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My family thinks I'm nuts too but it's never stopped me yet
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but,..my family thinks that I am nuts
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My family thinks I'm nuts too but it's never stopped me yet
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Absa- blooming- lutely!!

You go girl, if you do not dream how can you have dreams come true????

It sounds great to me, they are obviously worried that the next thing is going to be their work rosters
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LOL,....yup I think you are right Rabbitfizz
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,.....I read theses posts to them last night,..and Fred said,.."You know darn well,..who is gonna be doing all this work!",...to which I replied in a small voice,...."Only the BIG stuff Hon?!"
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My daughters just said,..."Yeah right mom!"

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Ahh dreams are great l've learned to dream in steps not to upset my other half all at once this way takes longer but the end result is the same. Dream on. :lol: :lol: :lol:

OHHH Right!!,...dont upset the other half ALL at once,.....A very good point Relic that I didnt even think of.
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then again,..it doesent seem to take much too set our other half off,...does it? :new_shocked:
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I agree our dreams are great,...now if I could just convince Fred to buy that WINNING lotto ticket ,...things would be so much easier!
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Marty and Sedeh,.......I mentioned to them that this was just the big picture,..but,..the smaller pic would be WAYYYY much easier and all they did was groan and walk away!!!,..
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Did I say somthing wrong??????
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Corinne,...My daughter laughed when she read your post,...promptly smacked ME! on the head,...and told me that I would have to catch her first!!!!!!

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some children,...really!!!!!!
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Wade,....I really liked your idea,...but,..my family wasnt to keen on the whole issue! :lol:

I can sympathise with you Chandab,......MANY times,..I have almost put us off in the ditch,....me and my big mouth! Guess we gotta learn not to mention anything while our men are driving. LOL
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Triggy ,....great idea!!!,..I best do this while they are all gone today,..soo,. they cant hide the paper and pens on me!
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Thanks again everyone,..it is nice to know that I am not the only nutty one out there,...and I say that LOVINLY!!!!!
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