shorthorsemom said:
To all the experienced drivers out there... I have a question.I have been following this thread, (I read everything on driving I see posted) ... Do all of you have a groom assistant hold your horse for mounting and dismounting the cart every time you go out? Currently I am doing this because I am a newbie at driving. My assistant is at the horses head when I start and is there when I get back for the dismount and finish. I am not always going to be fortunate to have assistance available at all times that I want to drive. So, is it considered a driving "no-no" to tack, mount and go driving by yourself and come back and dismount and untack by yourself? In other words, if I cannot enlist help for my start and finish, should I skip the drive?
To be completely candid, yes, it is generally considered a no-no. So many things can go wrong, especially with a full-sized horse, and an accident with no one there to help you extricate the horse or notice that you haven't come back could be a terrible tragedy. Those who say that are absolutely correct. At the same time, I think Angie really nailed it on the head with this statement:
drivin*me*buggy said:
Driving is dangerous- it is what it is- and like anything in life you make a risk assessment. You accept responsibility for the risks you take and develop good judgment and skills. Educate yourself. I am always learning- and forever will be a student of this sport and life.
Risk assessment and taking responsibility for the results are a big part of it. If I am not comfortable with my horse's behavior on a given day, if he is scaring me or I feel uncomfortable for any reason, I will not drive no matter what my plans were.
I listen to my gut! If my green horse is wired and IMO not ready to hitch that day, I will ground-drive until he either is or we're both tired and done. Heck, if I even have an unspecified bad feeling on a given day, I listen to it. Maybe there's a bear I don't know about out on that trail. Maybe a drunk guy in the bushes. Whatever. If my guardian angel wants to tap my shoulder, I'm going to listen.
But like you, I have taken the time to educate myself and consider all the "what-if's." I know my horse and have done my groundwork with him. I do my best to prevent, through good training, good equipment and good practices, any sort of foreseeable problem. And then I take responsibility for the results, hitch up and go. If something goes wrong it is my fault, not the horse's. If I get hurt, I have no one to blame but myself. I am more concerned about accidentally injuring an innocent bystander or my horse and weigh any risk to them much more heavily than one to myself.
I'll be honest with you- I would never drive a full-sized horse by myself. Ever. I will drive a mini alone. Not because they are any less dangerous, but because my personal threshold is defined by whether I think I could get that horse out of trouble by myself. If a big horse goes down and gets tangled in harness it's going to take at least two people, preferably a swarm, to get him out safely. Someone must hold his head down, someone undo harness straps on each side, someone else help roll that heavy cart back, etc. One person cannot possibly do that safely. Especially not someone my size! Even hitching is risky as you must go around that large vehicle even to check a simple buckle and if that horse goes over top of you you're dead. With minis you can usually hold the horse's head and still reach the breeching buckle, nevermind the rest of the harness, at one time.
I can lift any of my carts by myself and flip them upright with one hand while still holding the horse. Even at my featherlight 106lbs, I can hold the horse down by myself (given the correct leverage) and undo harness straps. And at least when driving my own horse I not only know them, but they know - and more importantly, trust - me. I will not drive my mini alone if I can help it and not at all until they have proven to me that they'll listen and respond to me even when startled or afraid. I will not drive a mini I do not have that bond with alone. Those are my personal boundaries and may not necessarily be correct for someone else.
I've had accidents (anyone who's been driving for long enough eventually will) and have found the above comments to be correct for me and my individual horses. They may still bolt, spook, back into a fence or whatever, but once the accident is over and we're dealing with the aftermath my horses know to trust me to get them out and will lie there or stand steady while I get them untangled. And it is still better to have someone with you!
I had one very bad accident with a friend's horse at the Kentucky Horse Park where I was SO GLAD I had two other people with me...and we'd have still been in trouble if they were both driving their own horses! Thankfully one was riding her Connemara and was able to dismount and tie him to a tree long enough to dive into the bushes in which my mare was stuck and help me get her free. She was panicked and lunging so someone absolutely had to stand at her head, and given that I'd injured my wrist and opposite shoulder in being dislodged from the cart it would have been nice to have a third person to help with getting the harness off. I thank God that the adrenaline was flowing strongly enough for me to wrench on those harp-taut harness buckles because otherwise we might never have gotten her out. (By an hour later I couldn't even open a car door without literally screaming.) If we'd only been out with single-passenger mini rigs, I think someone would have had to go for help while I stood at the mare's head because we would not have been able to safely get her out by ourselves. Lesson learned- especially if you are only going out with other drivers, each person should carry a halter so they can unhitch and tie their horses and come help someone in trouble! And thank God the other driver with me had a bench seat and a big mini so I was able to get a ride home leading the mare.
Another safety note that accident reminds me of- I was very glad I was carrying a knife and a cell phone, both zipped into their pockets so I couldn't lose them, and wearing a helmet and driving gloves. Both saved me serious injury. If you do go out by yourself, put your cell phone number somewhere on the horse's harness and make sure you've got a local emergency contact saved in your phone! I realized too late that while I had the mare's owner's phone number programmed in, I didn't have a contact number for any of my friends back at the barn that could have come and found me. Oops!
Carriage said:
This method of teaching and learning is referred to as crawl, walk, run. You don't proceed to running without having completed the pre-requisites of 1)crawl, 2) walk. To do so, is to set yourself and your horse up for failure and the resulting situational fall-out. ...Also the willingness to accept the reality/fact that you are always and forever training, to me, is key not just to this topic but through-out life.
So true. I wish more people would remember this applies to our horses as well! So often the horse seems to be accepting things so the person plows ahead without checking to see that the animal really "has its balance" and is ready to proceed.
Oh, and to keep this Hyperbike-related: yes, the KHP accident above occurred while driving a 'Bike. It survived amazingly well and was back in service the next day! The vehicle had nothing to do with the cause of the incident.
Leia