Need advice with good friend

[Mona]

I agree with everything Warpony said. Also, another angle you might want to consider...do you know/can you find out what the boss's name is? Maybe a phone call to HIS wife is also in order!

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[Miniv]

Warpony put an interesting stance on things in regard to STD's..........That is indeed something that needs to be considered. My earlier response was from the "prehistoric" point of view and forgetting about the risks young people who are sexual active are under now.

And if one takes the STD consideration in all of this.....A) Your friend could be at risk, because you can be dang sure this isn't the first time that the boss has done this. B) Your friend's boyfriend could also be at risk of catching something through the cheating relationship!

And the stinky part in all of this, in regard to the boss is that there are KIDS involved. That makes me burn.

MA

 

[MountainMeadows]

I would almost be willing to bet that as soon as your friend & Dan break up that Boss Hogg (good one Jill!) will move on also -- he will no doubt not want to have a girlfriend who has that much free time on her hands and no worries of her own to concern herself with about the cheating that is going on from both ends. As long as she has a boyfriend of her own, she has something to lose, just like him, once that is no longer part of the equation, I'll bet he will want nothing to do with her.

Again, the kids are the ones who are going to pay for all of this in the longrun - how do you think she will feel when that one is thrown in her face.