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It sounds to me like your coworker is one of those people that is extremely delusional about their sense of entitlement. No matter what happens, she is going to be right in her own mind, which means she assumes everyone else naturally agrees with her. I don't view this as her reaching out ot you as a friend, but rather as her "talking at you" to rationalize her own perspective. I am sorry you are having to deal with this, but I hope it gets resolved soon...one way or another.i got an e-mail from amy this afternoon. she blasted liz in the worst way and ended her e-mail by saying she just might not even come back to "this blankety-blank (use your imagination!!!) place after the surgery."
wow! you sure hit that nail right on the head. this is, more or less, what i have been feeling but i just couldn't put it into words. she definitely thinks she's running the show and up until just the last few days when my boss put her big girl panties on, she WAS.It sounds to me like your coworker is one of those people that is extremely delusional about their sense of entitlement. No matter what happens, she is going to be right in her own mind, which means she assumes everyone else naturally agrees with her. I don't view this as her reaching out ot you as a friend, but rather as her "talking at you" to rationalize her own perspective. I am sorry you are having to deal with this, but I hope it gets resolved soon...one way or another.i got an e-mail from amy this afternoon. she blasted liz in the worst way and ended her e-mail by saying she just might not even come back to "this blankety-blank (use your imagination!!!) place after the surgery."
i've been mulling that over and for now, i'm saving the e-mails and will decide later, depending on how things work out, whether or not to show them to liz. amy mentioned one of her "dates" yesterday, i took the opportunity to tell her TMI and i would appreciate it if she would keep this garbage to herself from now on. i don't want to hear about it! bleh!!!Hi Charlene, You might want to reconsider and show Liz the emails. If you were dealing with a healthy, reasonable person...I'd say, keep them under wraps...However, not sure you are...someone else mentioned the sense of entitlement she has. People like this are very adept at sensing energy shifts with people and when they might be getting into hot water....bringing daughter to work, so boss can't confront her. I almost got burned big time by someone like this. They count on others being kind, respectful, and playing by the rules...so they can take advantage...they don't play by the same rules you do....That is how people can get victimized so easily sometimes and then are left wondering...how the heck did that happen?...I, too, am anxious to see the outcome...Hang in there!
wellll, ummmmm.....oh this is just sick. middle of the afternoon, amy got hungry because she skipped lunch so she ran out to hardee's drive-up window. she'd been gone a few minutes and i got up to check the fax machine, looked at her monitor and noticed she had a yahoo chat window minimized. curiosity got the best of me so i pulled it up. she was talking to some guy...making a DATE with him. i only read a tiny bit but could tell it was somebody she hadn't "been with" yet.Anything happen at work today?????
