PERS, Carol... I just cannot imagine who these folks might beJEE Jill. I wonder who they could be. Maybe I will get out my super magical decoder PM ring and investigate.
(In bold) Now this is something I'm inclined to agree with you about Matt but I do think those "responsible" breeders do their absolute best to educate the buyers when they sell. There is definately a shortage of good homes. Anyone who thinks not is hiding their heads in the sand and/or has been just plain lucky. But as human nature goes, you can't always see into the hearts of those who end up buying your horse--whether they are truly willing to sacrifice when times get tough or just let the horse go without, whether they are feeding you a load of crap about their horsemanship skills or not. There are no gaurantees no matter how well you prepare or how well you interview, most of those horses go to those new homes on a wish and a prayer. Few people new to horses, and even some who've been around awhile, can or ever do grasp what it takes to care properly for equine unless they have made the commitment on all levels. It's more than throwing out some hay and keeping the water bucket filled and sadly some don't realize what they've gotten themselves into before they purchase. I have NEVER advised anyone to get a horse. It's not the usual type of person who is willing to get up in the middle of the night with a sick horse, spend thousands on vet bills, farriers, blankets, tons of hay, fix fences and spend you every waking moment being concerned with them. Most people would call horse people obsessed or just plain crazy and unfortunatley just too few of them....
It is not the mini horse that is overpopulated, it is the STUPID, UNEDUCATED, ABUSIVE, NEGLECTFUL, AND IGNORANT, owners that are overpopulated.
So instead of focusing all of the energy on telling good, responsible, homes that they shouldn't breed, why don't you focus that energy on using your knowledge and experience to help someone understand how to be more responsible, and how to give their minis a better home.
Irresponsible breeding is only a fraction of the problem and yet that is the only part anyone here seems to be focusing on, and they take it too far by telling good horse owners that they shouldn't breed because their horses are inferior.
NOT EVERYONE HAS TO HAVE A GOAL OF ALWAYS MAKING THE BREED BETTER. THIS BREED S NOT JUST FOR THE ELITE. SOME PEOPLE JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN AND ENJOY THEIR ANIMALS.
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... and yet have gone out of your way to be smug and sneer.... I cannot help but go... huh?When the goal turns to mean jabs and insults...
... is unnecessary IMO. You claim that you want a discussion and yet insist on the little jabs?? That does not make for any kind of a discussion.I know there are a lot of commas here, and perhaps some big words, which can be confusing, but I hope those of you who had trouble "understanding" my last post can understand this...)
horsehug - the way I see it - the goals you mentioned are one and the same... soundness and functionality = form to function - put together in the right way is that halter/performance winner - even if they never see a show ring.I guess this is my way of saying I do understand breeding for soundness and funtionality, while I also understand those who choose to breed for halter winners, and I wish we could all understand that we each have our own goals, and if the wellbeing of our little horses is at the forefront, I do not see a problem with following our own goals.
[SIZE=24pt][/SIZE][SIZE=14pt]Well I missed the rude pm party so let me just sing this last carol for yalls and I'll carol my fat butt to bed and leave you all with this final thought........[/SIZE]
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Let There Be Peace on Earth and let it begin with me.
Let There Be Peace on Earth, the peace that was meant to be!
With Mary Lou as our leader, sisters and brothers all are we.
Let us all trot into the forum, in perfect harmony.
But it continues--reply by reply, the lb reputation is joining Oscar. As is the reputation of some of the repliers. The integrity of this forum is fading--and yes--all it takes is something like this. So sad. So many disappointed--but they won't speak up.I am truly sorry.. I got caught up in the funny things and getting giddy with my old age.. I hope no one feels I was making fun of anyone here.. that honestly was not my intension.. If I hurt anyone's feelings, I am so very sorry.. it was not meant that way..
You obviously have no clue as to how you are coming across to the many who are reading this in dismay. Some of you may regret this fun later.
Wow.
First of all......NIKKI.......more coke (acola) out my nose. The second time in minutes!When the goal turns to mean jabs and insults, it can't be educational. And its seems that opinions on heated topics, can't reasonably be discussed here,
Matt.......I have not taken part of ANY of your discussion but pray tell what was the "GOAL" Was it your goal? Did you think everyone was going to agree with you? Or were you merely trolling for trouble. Sometimes things just don't go as planned.
As for HEATED TOPICS not being discussed here? You could have fooled me. There are many "heated discussions" on this Forum. They just seem to make more sense than this one. Again, I didn't participate in this one because I had to drum up my decoder ring and glasses to even start to understand half the stuff you were saying.
If you think the goal is for people to be right or wrong you have come to the wrong place. It is nothing more than a place to exchange ideas.
I saw a lot of people sharing opinions. I saw you devalue as many opinions as others devalued yours.The goal became, at least for a couple, to just insult and devalue the opinion, rather than sharing ones own.
I don't think you were any less guilty than anyone else. And that's just my opinion. I have nothing against you personally....nor anyone else on this Forum. You come here fighting and you are going to get people to fight back. Me........I'd rather just have a good laugh and get on with things. I suggest you try to move on too................
If I know who the secret society of helpful informants are, do I get a free ring and glasses (sans hairy dude, pls)?
Matt, and anyone else who feels "put down" that was never the intention nor is it the intention.
None of us are right all the time, and most of us are able to see that we were wrong, and admit it.
I'm probably wrong right now, I just hope I'm not making mistakes that cause others (including my horses) to suffer.
Believe me, there's nothing worse than finding out one of the little horses you raised, trained, and put so much hope into and care, turned out to be someone's neglected "pet."
Yes, show horses or any horse for that matter, could end up that way, it's just so much more likely when we sell to the pet market, because noone goes and checks on the horses every month or so like the show horses (brought to a show so one can see just HOW they are doing rather than driving by and seeing them neglected in a field.).
I do think there are alternatives to breeding pet only horses, as in rescuing and rehabbing some, or adopting from rescues. This is what I would love for people to see, other than wanting their own foal, or to breed their own foal.
Foalhood is so short-lived, and yet so much can be done to ruin a horse when they're so young and malleable. It really is only for those with previous horse experience, or those who are humble enough to accept guidance of a reasonable and seasoned horseperson.
I know there are exceptions, but honestly, when I took on my first herd unexpectedly, two of the mares were pregnant. I had had horses for nearly ten years prior, had worked with and studied horses all of my life. I KNEW the two mares were not the best quality, and the one I knew for sure was bad. Her foal was alright, and I sold him as a pet gelding and gave her away (she rejected her foal and my first foaling ending up with a rejected foal was a real eye=opener for me). I gave away one other mare from the herd, and still have one (Gramma Pony).
The other I sold as a broodmare to someone who wanted to breed "Over" horses, but only after I broke her to drive.
I wish I knew then what I know now, as I would have wasted some less time with some things, but overall, I had a lot of horse experience. I find so many people wanting them for the novelty being people without.
I hope you realize it is a sad fact that there are too many minis being bred for the wrong reasons and it bothers us.
Does it mean people with a valid breeding goal should stop moving forward? No...it just means we have to be extra careful with our goals, and we have to be extra vigilant as to where we sell our horses, how we market them (if we care, and most of us do), and also that we have to accept less for that job.
"We" meaning collective, not adding myself to any elite. Nope. Nuh-uh.
Liz
Hi Matt,
I have been so busy the last few days and weeks that I did not keep up totally with this thread, but in looking back to your posts I just wanted to say I do see a lot that I do agree with.
I have many times thought that if you have a wonderful little horse that is built in such a way that it moves comfortably and lives a very functional, sound and happy life, you want more like it! At least I have a few like that. They may not be halter winners in the current show ring of today, but to "me" they are winners and I love it when I get babies "like" them! And I am talking sound foals that sell easily and give their owners joy also while living happy comfortable functional useful lives! And like someone mentioned in one of these threads, just being a happy well cared for pasture ornament can be a valid use also in my book!
I guess this is my way of saying I do understand breeding for soundness and funtionality, while I also understand those who choose to breed for halter winners, and I wish we could all understand that we each have our own goals, and if the wellbeing of our little horses is at the forefront, I do not see a problem with following our own goals.
To achieve breeding horses that do well in halter as well as performance as well as bringing joy to their owners as happy pets, that is indeed wonderful also. But to me so long as the horses are comfortable and sound, and do not suffer, I think goals in any of these endeavors are good.
Susan O.
When the goal turns to mean jabs and insults, it can't be educational.
Like many others on this board, I sometimes feel the need to get the last word in,
There is no point in trying to share an opinion or argue a point, when there is(no offense) a group of adult ladies who share a similar thought and will not stop at anything to convince everyone else that they are right.
I couldn't agree more! Frankly, I am shocked at the twist this topic has taken. I was under the assumption that this part of the forum was to help and educate people in the care of miniature horses, not to make fun of them. If you were a teacher and had a student that "just didn't get it" would you keep trying to get it across to him or just give up and publicly humiliate him. That is what this topic has turned into .. people trying to humiliate posters that don't agree with them.But it continues--reply by reply, the lb reputation is joining Oscar. As is the reputation of some of the repliers. The integrity of this forum is fading--and yes--all it takes is something like this. So sad. So many disappointed--but they won't speak up.I am truly sorry.. I got caught up in the funny things and getting giddy with my old age.. I hope no one feels I was making fun of anyone here.. that honestly was not my intension.. If I hurt anyone's feelings, I am so very sorry.. it was not meant that way..
You obviously have no clue as to how you are coming across to the many who are reading this in dismay. Some of you may regret this fun later.
Wow.
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