Sending tons of prayers. I'm sorry the news wasn't good, I agree with everyone who said to get a second opinion. On alternative treatments....I think they are great as a supplement to traditional medicine, but please do not rely on those alone...I lost a very dear friend because of it, she would still be alive if she listened to her doctors and had radiation and chemo, but she refused insisting her diet could beat her cervical cancer alone.
You are very very strong and will be thinking about you and your family alot.