If you can't trust your trainer...... you better find a new one!
........... Guess so, but because of that & more they find it hard to trust trainers now. Seems some clients get treated right & some don't....Thing is you don't know which category you got put in until after the fact.
Cathy, I am really sorry that your friends got treated unfairly. I dont know the circumstances and am not going to presume anything or try to explain it away.
What I would like to say though is many trainers, I would go as far to say most, are fair and honest and handle their clients as well as the horses they entrust to them with respect.
Like I said before, it is a business relationship, often it becomes more than just business partners as many of my clients are also friends, but still there should always be a contract stating these type of things. If it is not covered in the contract than it has no relevance.
Sometimes situations come up that I realize I need to adjust my contract for the next year but I stick to my agreement for the current year and bite the bullet.
As far as whether a horse goes to a show or not, it is not hard to find out as between the online results, people that you know, and club websites, it would be pretty stupid to either take or not take a horse that was supposed to go or not go.
Please dont generalize all of us as the majority of us are really pretty darn nice people. Unfortunately in any avenue of life there are good and bad examples.