So sorry to hear about Fever. I can't imagine having to put one down. But, giving him a chance is worth it. Our friends had brought a puppy to us, said it had been hit by a car, and wanted my husband to put it down for them. It was unconscious and limp as a rag. However, after examining the little fella, I found the wounds were not consistent with being hit by a car, the wounds were more like something had grabbed it and drug it a long distance, and quite possibly it was in shock. I had to do some fast talking to keep them from putting it down. I kept working with it and after two hours it began to move about some, but not it's back legs. After four hours it was standing. After four days, it was running and jumping onto the couch. I guess I'm telling you this because I'm not sure that just putting an animal down without giving it a chance is always a good thing for it, even though that is what most of us have always believed. That we are doing it for the sake of the animal. I will pray for the both of you, and good luck in the decision you make. I hope I don't have to go through that. My little gelding got away from me today with his cart attached. He ended up flipping it and landed on his side. I couldn't hardly move for fear he had hurt himself. He is new at driving, and he got spooked. He had been coming along so good too. Thank goodness no one was in the cart. I put him up for a bit in his stall, we bent the cart back into it's proper position, and hooked him up again. He did great this time. But, that was a heavy lesson learned! The trainer had told me we would have good days, bad days........this was one of the bad ones. Partly my fault, I knew to stand in front of him while hitching, but didn't. Like I said, heavy lesson learned! I know you don't know me, but give Fever a hug for me, and good luck with your decision.