See you guys soon!

[Leeana]

Okay im going to go for a couple weeks. Mostly because everytime i post something i just get complaints and its not worth putting me or yourself through it. Im scared to even post on here anymore because i just get yelled at and my emotions are fragile still from stuff and the whole reason i got into horses was to help my problems. This forum is undoing all the work i've done to get myself where i was at a while ago. So im just going to head out for a couple weeks. I might still lurk around and read some stuff from time to time but i wont be posting or doing any serious visits for a while.

When i come back i will have had time to think stuff through and maybe 'grow up some' from what i've been told to do. So im just going to say Bye for now and hope you guys dont take it personal ...its not something you guys said. Its just for my own good. I was planning on leaving for a while a couple weeks ago but decided agianst it. I will see you in a couple weeks, bye

Leeana

 

[kaykay]

i hope you read my last post on your paint filly thread. maybe take a little time off and think about it. call me if you want to talk about it 740-323-4341. Even though im 42 i do remember what it was like to be 17

 

[lyn_j]

[SIZE=14pt]Leeana, PLEASE listen to Kay. Take her up on her offer. If you are truly wanting to learn how to train a young horse as you say.....let her come and help you. Obviously she isnt the BOogie man....you have so many of us here that vouch for her..... how can your parents be against that? Your post on the first page about your sister age 37 and her mini.....she needs Kays help. Of course the cops arent going to come if you call them on your sister and that is a stupid statement to make...sorry bad me again. The SMART and MATURE thing to do would be to THANK your lucky stars Kay is there for you. And that Voodoo is there for you to talk to.[/SIZE]

The reason we are all so upset with you is your posts are contradictory.....you change your story several times as the threads go on...... Im just guessing here that your parents are in at least their late 5os.... if you have a sister that is 37. Example in point. Thats not a good age to START riding horses for your mom.... things like that when you keep yelling back at us that we dont know you or your situation etc....your problems are not our business unless you make them our business. At anyrate. Here is a first rate top notch person willing to drive to your house and help you out......TAKE IT. Dont run away from the board in a snit announcing that you are taking some weeks off because we are all so mean to you....do you think that hurts our feelings? No . what hurts our feelings is hearing how the animals are being, unintentionally, but still being mistreated by unknowing behaviors on everyones part. The horses are not weapons of irritation like you are trying to say about your sister getting one to irritate you. A sister that is 20 years older than you doesnt do things to irritate a child. She is old enough to be your mother for crying out loud.

You have an answer back for everything we say....if you need a break from posting fine ....

Lyn

 

[Marty]

If you need me for any reason just send me a PM

 

[Voodoo]

Leeana I'm still here if you want to talk about anything. I have friends who are in or have been in worse situations than you. I can listen really well

and if you would like advise I would do my best for you. Also I think having Kaykay over would be a great idea if you could swing it with your parents (know that deal too from other friends). If you do decide to just leave for a couple weeks, no offense taken from me and I'll be waiting for your return.

 

[RainSong]

I'll chime in here- if you need to talk about -anything- I'm here, just toss me a PM, or IM me. I'm not too much older than you (24 in a couple weeks), and I'll freely admit I'm not a trainer- but I'll listen and try to help if I can.

Hope things get better for you. I know there were times in my life when I really had alot of junk going on- and could have used someone to listen.

 

[Leeana]

I have a couple people that told me not to go ..to face this problem. I will probaly just watch the forum for a couple days because i've said my sorries which are soooo sincire and i feel that a couple weeks off this forum is no longer needed because i thought so much through and talked so much through and i decided to change and grow up. Its scarey to realize your about to turn 18 and be considered a 'legal adult' and act like i do. Its amazing really. There is so much i still have not learned or gotten to expirence and take in. Its about darn time i learn this stuff. and im beginnings with revaluating my priorities and personality conflicts. I hope you all see a whole new person in me! I sure am trying

I am going to just lay low for a couple days so i can do all this though ....just understand that this has nothing to do with anything really bad. Its just i need some time to think and realize some stuff.

Leeana

 

[Sun Runner Stables]

Sent you a PM.

Talk to you soon, and 'member;

We were Not trying to eat you, as Lyn explained, or beat you down or anything else, it's rather unfair to say a group forum reacting to your posts were attempting to beat up your self esteem. We were simply reacting to the highly defensive reactions to our advice for the Horse's sake. And if we truly did shake you up and that's not just a guilt trip, I for one am sorry my words caused you to feel that way.

Take a couple deep breaths and know when you ask and and politely recieve adivice, you will probably never have such a problem with people getting upset with your situation/postings/anwsers.

 

[New_Image]

Hey Leeana,

Id love to meet you some day (If I had a car that would help

) You know, Im only about 4 hours north of you... Id be willing to come help if you need anything or you could come here if you'd like.

Dont go, just live and learn and move on

In the mean time, If you even need to talk just PM me.