My trouble isn't necessarily the untamed mane, but the overly fuzzy forlock. I don't show my horses just drive for fun. but when I harness him his forlock sticks up like a fluffy cotton ball. I know I can trim or pull the under hairs but not sure if its what I need to do. Also, my newest mini's mane was roached and he looks like a zebra with an overgrown mane as it is growing out. How long does it take for a mane to grow out?