UPDATE AT END!
In a nutshell...Mark's sister (my sister in law....whom I refuse to meet or socialize with) murdered her 3 year old daughter in 1993? and tried to murder her 1 year old son who miraculously survived. I have her public records of the incident from the courts. For some reason I went and was reading throught them about 2 hours ago, and then decided to look up Mark.
I know that in 1995, he was expelled from school for having marajuana on him. Then when he was 18, one of his friend's stole a car and picked him and a couple other friends up. The police arrested Mark and he spent three days in jail. Those are the only times he has been in trouble with the law. Or so we thought!
I ended up finding out that he has an arrest warrent out. "Supposedly" he was in Riverside (2 hours away) on January 9th, 2005 and got caught with Burglary tools and a hyperdermic needle/syringe. Then he failed to appear in court and the warrent was issued. This was after Mark and I were already married, and I know for a fact that he was not arrested, caught, or talked to about those things. We've been together almost daily since we've been together (8 years), and I would have known if this happened. Not to mention that he hasn't used drugs since he was 18 and with his first girlfriend (he is now 30).
I am shocked, scared, upset and everything else you can imagine. And I can only imagine what is going on inside Mark's head. I called him at work and told him about the warrent and he was just as shocked as I was. He had his company print out his time cards to show that he was at work both the Friday before the alleged incident and also the Monday after (the 9th was on Sunday, and he was at work Monday morning). We don't know what else to do. He called the court and asked them if he did indeed have an arrest warrent out for him, and the woman told him yes. She also said that he probably won't be arrested, but that he needs to come in ASAP to get it straightened out. So he'll be taking off work tomorrow, so see what's going on.
I'm not going because I think I'll lose it if I see them handcuff him. I don't know what will happen if he is arrested. I've never been in trouble with the law, so I am basically clueless. I'm so upset because I know 100% that he didn't do what they are accusing him of. I'm not even sure what they are accusing him of, because the records don't show if the guy was arrested, or just warned. It just shows "Possession of burglary tools and possession of hyperdermic needle/syringe" and "failure to appear in court". Well yeah...because Mark never knew he was supposed to be in court for something he didn't do.
The only thing that I can think of is that someone used his name or social security number. But the mugshot and fingerprints should have proved it wasn't him, if the guy was indeed arrested. Can you think of anything else that Mark might be able to take with him to court to show that he is a changed person and the things he did when he was 18 are WAY in the past? He has no physical aliby since he never knew he'd need it, he only has me and my family as witnesses and truthfully, I can't remember what we were doing on one certain day...over two years ago. I have a hard time remembering what we did last Thursday!