This is a great way to use all those squash! I put squash in so many things! Quick breads that call for apples, enchiladas, meat loaf, soups or stews next winter, spaghetti... I've been freezing mine in the muffin tins and it works great. I don't know about freezing it breaded; we have been on low-fat diets for a while and I haven't breaded/fried anything in a long time.I like the idea of shredding it and putting it in muffin tins to get portions frozen; that would be nice for meatloafs and such.
Sliced squash is also good sauteed in olive oil with garlic salt on it. My non-squash husband will even eat a few pieces of squash cooked this way.
What I do with my okra is slice it into 1/4" pieces, lay it on a greased (Pam) cookie sheet, sprinkle with garlic salt, and bake at a low heat--250 or so--for an hour or longer if you want it crisper. It is like eating popcorn. Our home economist showed us this way. You can freeze it after you take it out of the oven and then use it in soups later. You could probably even bread it and fry it later. Maybe leave the garlic salt off, though...
I have some pretty Fresno peppers and I'm going to try a batch of hot pepper jelly. The batch I tried a couple of years ago didn't turn out well and I thought I'd die making it. It took me several days to recover from working with the hot peppers!