Dontworrybeappy
Well-Known Member
When I was showing Arabians, I had a trainer who had forgotten to enter my horse in a Regional show class. She hauled it to the show, had it ready and was dressed to go in before she realized he wasn't entered. She argued with show management, but they stuck to their rules. As the owner, I wasn't responsible for the error, and yes, we were all very upset, but in joining the registry and showing in it's shows, I'd agreed to abide by the rules. It would not have been fair to the other entrants who had followed the rules if they had decided to BREAK the rule to let my horse show.
This situation was COMPLETELY my trainer's fault. She did NOT check all the horse's entries when she got to the show. If she had checked those entries ANY time in the many days she was there before my horse's class, she could have gotten him into the class. (and yes, I had PAID her for my entry, so guess who kept that money? Not the show!) If I had been there and had ANY idea that this person I had trusted with my beloved horse and my money was really a scatter-brained *****, I could have followed up on my own and played by the rules. But I didn't. It was NOT the show management's fault, it was the fault of my trainer. It was NOT the registry's fault, it was the fault of my trainer.
I didn't fight the show management or the registry, and I really didn't fight the trainer, as she made me many special "deals" to make it up to me. In hindsight, I should have taken that very large hint and gotten far away from her, but that is another story.
I learned from this.... know the rules and make sure that everyone you are working with is following these rules. That way you GET to show with the rest of the people who ALSO follow the rules. Personally, I would rather believe that I'm showing with people who play by the rules, even though I do know that many people are trying to find ways around them instead. That sullies us all - those people who try to get around the rules.
Yes, the owners who trusted the trainer(s) to follow the rules lost out this year. Next year if they show they'll know to either go with a more responsible trainer, or follow up to make sure their trainer is following the rules. (and I think that your trainer sure owes you something big to make this up to you, whether you stay with that trainer or not!)
Don't like the rule? There are processes in place to change rules in the future.... do that if you feel strongly it must be changed. OTOH, it is easier to just learn from this and move on... heartbreaking as it is right now. I do feel your pain and I'm sorry for your situation.
This situation was COMPLETELY my trainer's fault. She did NOT check all the horse's entries when she got to the show. If she had checked those entries ANY time in the many days she was there before my horse's class, she could have gotten him into the class. (and yes, I had PAID her for my entry, so guess who kept that money? Not the show!) If I had been there and had ANY idea that this person I had trusted with my beloved horse and my money was really a scatter-brained *****, I could have followed up on my own and played by the rules. But I didn't. It was NOT the show management's fault, it was the fault of my trainer. It was NOT the registry's fault, it was the fault of my trainer.
I didn't fight the show management or the registry, and I really didn't fight the trainer, as she made me many special "deals" to make it up to me. In hindsight, I should have taken that very large hint and gotten far away from her, but that is another story.
I learned from this.... know the rules and make sure that everyone you are working with is following these rules. That way you GET to show with the rest of the people who ALSO follow the rules. Personally, I would rather believe that I'm showing with people who play by the rules, even though I do know that many people are trying to find ways around them instead. That sullies us all - those people who try to get around the rules.
Yes, the owners who trusted the trainer(s) to follow the rules lost out this year. Next year if they show they'll know to either go with a more responsible trainer, or follow up to make sure their trainer is following the rules. (and I think that your trainer sure owes you something big to make this up to you, whether you stay with that trainer or not!)
Don't like the rule? There are processes in place to change rules in the future.... do that if you feel strongly it must be changed. OTOH, it is easier to just learn from this and move on... heartbreaking as it is right now. I do feel your pain and I'm sorry for your situation.