I went to the no-charge, 'introductory' evening session of Pat Parelli WAY back when he was just getting started...(let's see...my neighbor, who'd moved here in '86 w/ a 2 YO Tenn. Walker STALLION, then bred the common, ill-mannered thing and had it's equally common 2 YO(thankfully, THIS one he gelded!)son, was all jacked about going to learn all about 'training' this 2 YO, so it must have been about '90...). Parelli had yet to instigate all his 'games' and various other draws, nor the extreme marketing tactics/techniques, but even then, I was wholly UNimpressed, so I 'passed' on the 'opportunity'
to attend the next two days' of exposure to Mr. Parelli. Newbie-horse-owner neighbor ate it up, though...and,already a man with a strong shot of arrogant ego, has been 'quite the expert'-at least in his own estimation--ever since!
Now, there is quite a crop of these kinds of people. My only exposure to any except Parelli and Monty Roberts(who I came to feel about pretty much as I feel about Parelli) is watching each a FEW times on RFD-TV and more recently, HRTV. I kind of like what little I've seen of Chris Cox, and Craig Cameron(both of whom seem to have some solid, GENUINE cowboy(in the best sense of the word, which many don't seem to understand nowadays)knowledge...but I wouldn't go out and 'buy' products with THEIR names on them, either!
I was set up onto a work mule at age 2; rode a cousin's pony(bareback)virtually every waking moment while visiting my aunt and uncle near Lubbock summers from age 6 through 9, nagged my parents into my first OWN horse(a small mare from the Arapahoe)when I was 9, and since then,have owned, ridden, trained, shown, horses of a fair number of different breeds and disciplines, in the intervening 61 years. I learned mostly from the people I was around(some who knew what they were doing, some not so much-you learn the difference, when you care deeply to LEARN, and KNOW!); only took 'formal' lessons from a totally WESTERN RIDING-oriented gentleman who TRAINED RIDERS to train their horses, and recommended only TWO reading sources...Henry Wynnmalen of the UK, and Col. Alois Podhasky, of the Spanish Riding School...both Dressage masters!My instructor was NEVER a 'horse trainer' himself, but a VERY smart, astute card-holding judge, whose daughter had become a world-class Western exhibitor(mostly AQHA, back then.)I rode cutting horses(my college barrel/pole horse started as a cutting horse) with one of the best of the time, June Mitchell(a man, despite the first name!), and just watched and listened closely to EVERYONE who was clearly knowledgeable. These kinds of people KNEW THEIR STUFF before Parelli and his ilk could toddle!
I am QUITE comfortable with my now-considerable abilities and store of knowledge--but am STILL learning...no one will EVER 'know it all' about horses and horsemanship, and I consider continued learning a lifetime project! I do believe there is NO substitute for experience, experience, experience...Wet saddleblankets, we oldtimers would say.
Agree 100% w/ what Marty expressed, BTW.)
Margo