Soggy Bottom Ranch
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I need some advise for a delimma that's starting to take place reguarding our family christmas. Dave and I just bought this place not long ago, and we're excited to share it. My family is coming for our christmas on Dec. 22nd, most of whom have not even seen our new home yet. My brother and his fiance have two dogs that are just like their kids to them, which I can COMPLETELY relate to because I have cats that are just like my kids most days. However, these two dogs are not diciplined very well, and they don't listen well either. We've had get togethers at our old home where they have brought their dogs, and every time we'd turn around they were sniffing at the food on the table, or under our feet. My brother will scold them, and then laugh while the dog is still sniffing at the food. If he goes to shoo them away, they'll be right back there in two minutes anyway, and then start all over!
All the get togethers we have had where the dogs come along, have been outside camp overs, so they were never allowed in the house, and my cats have never seen them, or been around them. They would be terrified if the dogs had come in! We have constantly asked my brother to pick up their dog poop as well, and he just laughs at us, and says "you live in the country, why pick it up, just mow over it!" Well, I don't know how many times I'd stepped in some dog poop walking across the lawn to get the mail. It makes Dave very angry, so last time, after he asked my brother to pick it up, and he ignored Dave, Dave just picked it up while my brother watched him do it. Personally, I feel it's very disrespectful.
Sorry to be long winded..........I'm upset, and to busy to have time to deal with this, so it's just getting to me more than it should I suppose. Here is my delimma. My brother said that they can't find anyone to watch the dogs for them that day, and that they are maybe gonna have to bring the boys. Dave told me absolutely not! We are not dog people, I hope I don't get flamed for saying that, it's not that we don't like them, we do, it's just that we choose not to have them. Dave absolutely does not want them in our new home since we have all new furniture and carpet. I don't like the idea of my cats being scared out of their mind, and hiding all day just because of the dogs, and then I wonder if they would possibly start to mark their territory because of the dog smell left behind?
I asked if they could stay in the garage or the barn, and they said no because neither is heated. What I don't understand is, why is this our problem to manage or make better? Why can't they board them for the day, or get a pet sitter? All I want is a nice family day spent together, so do we have to be the ones to give in here, and let these dogs come in to our nice new home? We don't force our animals on someone when we go to visit, we get someone to watch them, or we board them as we are doing right now, and as we did with our cats when we moved.
Would surely appreciate anyones advise or opinion here, and if you've ever had this happen to you, please share what you did to solve the delimma. And even if you have no opinion or advise............thank you for letting me vent! I'm just to busy trying to get caught up on my sewing orders to deal with this right now, and not even sure if this is my problem to deal with or not? They did say that if they can't find someone to watch their dogs, that they may not come. I want them here, I really do, but isn't this going a little to far? Again, why not be a responsible pet owner, and board the dogs?
I need some advise for a delimma that's starting to take place reguarding our family christmas. Dave and I just bought this place not long ago, and we're excited to share it. My family is coming for our christmas on Dec. 22nd, most of whom have not even seen our new home yet. My brother and his fiance have two dogs that are just like their kids to them, which I can COMPLETELY relate to because I have cats that are just like my kids most days. However, these two dogs are not diciplined very well, and they don't listen well either. We've had get togethers at our old home where they have brought their dogs, and every time we'd turn around they were sniffing at the food on the table, or under our feet. My brother will scold them, and then laugh while the dog is still sniffing at the food. If he goes to shoo them away, they'll be right back there in two minutes anyway, and then start all over!
All the get togethers we have had where the dogs come along, have been outside camp overs, so they were never allowed in the house, and my cats have never seen them, or been around them. They would be terrified if the dogs had come in! We have constantly asked my brother to pick up their dog poop as well, and he just laughs at us, and says "you live in the country, why pick it up, just mow over it!" Well, I don't know how many times I'd stepped in some dog poop walking across the lawn to get the mail. It makes Dave very angry, so last time, after he asked my brother to pick it up, and he ignored Dave, Dave just picked it up while my brother watched him do it. Personally, I feel it's very disrespectful.
Sorry to be long winded..........I'm upset, and to busy to have time to deal with this, so it's just getting to me more than it should I suppose. Here is my delimma. My brother said that they can't find anyone to watch the dogs for them that day, and that they are maybe gonna have to bring the boys. Dave told me absolutely not! We are not dog people, I hope I don't get flamed for saying that, it's not that we don't like them, we do, it's just that we choose not to have them. Dave absolutely does not want them in our new home since we have all new furniture and carpet. I don't like the idea of my cats being scared out of their mind, and hiding all day just because of the dogs, and then I wonder if they would possibly start to mark their territory because of the dog smell left behind?
I asked if they could stay in the garage or the barn, and they said no because neither is heated. What I don't understand is, why is this our problem to manage or make better? Why can't they board them for the day, or get a pet sitter? All I want is a nice family day spent together, so do we have to be the ones to give in here, and let these dogs come in to our nice new home? We don't force our animals on someone when we go to visit, we get someone to watch them, or we board them as we are doing right now, and as we did with our cats when we moved.
Would surely appreciate anyones advise or opinion here, and if you've ever had this happen to you, please share what you did to solve the delimma. And even if you have no opinion or advise............thank you for letting me vent! I'm just to busy trying to get caught up on my sewing orders to deal with this right now, and not even sure if this is my problem to deal with or not? They did say that if they can't find someone to watch their dogs, that they may not come. I want them here, I really do, but isn't this going a little to far? Again, why not be a responsible pet owner, and board the dogs?