heartofwisdom
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My mini barn is 8x16. I had it delivered fully assembled a few weeks ago. ( Hope this isn't too log but to understand how frustrated I am I have to tell the whole story.)
Please understand, I have never, ever had a bad neighbor. I have never called police or human society or anyone about anything. I mind my own business. I can't believe all this is happening and costing us thousands of dollars--and it a waste of time and money for everyone involved.
This is an equestrian community. Almost everyone here has horses (except these neighbors).
I just finished a 4 month ordeal with one neighbor over the fence line (long story it delayed me getting my horses until mid winter. And NOW the neighbor on the other side of us complained about the barn.
Here's a picture of the barn and the fence.
First neighbor complained that our fence was on her property by 1 foot (ONE FOOT BY THREE INCHES) on her property). She said we had a "red neck fence" making her dream house look like trash and she wanted it removed or she was suing. Plus she reported us to the county. She called it "red neck" becasue she has rod iron fence and a huge Greek statue of Venus in her yard. Our house is as nice as hers, our yard is well kept.
The markers showed our fence was on our yard and not in her yard but she bought GPA device when she put up her fence and claimed the survey was wrong. So we paid $500 to have a new survey and found her fence was 10 FEET by 160 FEET on our yard!! And guess what - SHE WAS MAD AT US! Her husband came over and screamed obscenities at my husband. They had ANOTHER survey done and found out the same thing she was furious that she had to move her fence. I even told her she didn't have to but she was still yelling about us being red necks and how our red neck fence has ruined her dream house. Neither I or my husband ever raised our voice or said anything in anyway in anger (we were trying to be kind). BTW, its not easy for me to throw away $500.
We waited for two months for them to move their fence so we could finish ours and they didn't. We couldn't finish our fence to get our horses. We gave up and fenced in an acre on the other side (near the other neighbor) just to get the horses (another $10,000 on top pf the $500 for the survey).
I choose a beautiful spot for the on top of a hill on our side yard. But after we talked about it we decided it would block our second neighbor's scenic view so we put the barn in a corner near our house. We paid $250 to have the area leveled. His fence and ours run along each other. I wanted to set the barn far enough back that the horse couldn't get stuck so I had the guy back the barn up to our fence. (I had no idea there was a rule). Note the neighbors house is at least almost an acre away from our barn on the farthest side of his property.
The second neighbor called the country and reported the barn was not ten feet from his property. We received a registered letter informing us we have to pay a fine for no building permit (I didn't know we needed one because we did not build anything). And we have to move the barn. Get this -- The barn is 6 ft from his fence. Now I have to pay the fine (who knows how much) and someone to level the new area another $250.
Why on earth would moving our barn 4 ft make a difference? Why are people so mean? Why didn’t he ask us to move it?
I swear I have never purposely hurt anyone in my life--I just don't understand people like this. Every year my children and I make and take these neighbors turkey candy cookies for Thanksgiving, and cookies for Christmas, etc. We always wave when we see them. I just don't get it. I'm a Christian and I'm praying like crazy not to be angry. It hard. I'm sincerly praying for both neighbors.
Sorry to be so long. I needed to get this out.
My question, How do I move the barn?
Its on a hill so I think I have to bring in dirt to have the new spot leveled.
Thanks for letting me vent.
Please understand, I have never, ever had a bad neighbor. I have never called police or human society or anyone about anything. I mind my own business. I can't believe all this is happening and costing us thousands of dollars--and it a waste of time and money for everyone involved.
This is an equestrian community. Almost everyone here has horses (except these neighbors).
I just finished a 4 month ordeal with one neighbor over the fence line (long story it delayed me getting my horses until mid winter. And NOW the neighbor on the other side of us complained about the barn.
Here's a picture of the barn and the fence.


First neighbor complained that our fence was on her property by 1 foot (ONE FOOT BY THREE INCHES) on her property). She said we had a "red neck fence" making her dream house look like trash and she wanted it removed or she was suing. Plus she reported us to the county. She called it "red neck" becasue she has rod iron fence and a huge Greek statue of Venus in her yard. Our house is as nice as hers, our yard is well kept.
The markers showed our fence was on our yard and not in her yard but she bought GPA device when she put up her fence and claimed the survey was wrong. So we paid $500 to have a new survey and found her fence was 10 FEET by 160 FEET on our yard!! And guess what - SHE WAS MAD AT US! Her husband came over and screamed obscenities at my husband. They had ANOTHER survey done and found out the same thing she was furious that she had to move her fence. I even told her she didn't have to but she was still yelling about us being red necks and how our red neck fence has ruined her dream house. Neither I or my husband ever raised our voice or said anything in anyway in anger (we were trying to be kind). BTW, its not easy for me to throw away $500.
We waited for two months for them to move their fence so we could finish ours and they didn't. We couldn't finish our fence to get our horses. We gave up and fenced in an acre on the other side (near the other neighbor) just to get the horses (another $10,000 on top pf the $500 for the survey).
I choose a beautiful spot for the on top of a hill on our side yard. But after we talked about it we decided it would block our second neighbor's scenic view so we put the barn in a corner near our house. We paid $250 to have the area leveled. His fence and ours run along each other. I wanted to set the barn far enough back that the horse couldn't get stuck so I had the guy back the barn up to our fence. (I had no idea there was a rule). Note the neighbors house is at least almost an acre away from our barn on the farthest side of his property.
The second neighbor called the country and reported the barn was not ten feet from his property. We received a registered letter informing us we have to pay a fine for no building permit (I didn't know we needed one because we did not build anything). And we have to move the barn. Get this -- The barn is 6 ft from his fence. Now I have to pay the fine (who knows how much) and someone to level the new area another $250.
Why on earth would moving our barn 4 ft make a difference? Why are people so mean? Why didn’t he ask us to move it?
I swear I have never purposely hurt anyone in my life--I just don't understand people like this. Every year my children and I make and take these neighbors turkey candy cookies for Thanksgiving, and cookies for Christmas, etc. We always wave when we see them. I just don't get it. I'm a Christian and I'm praying like crazy not to be angry. It hard. I'm sincerly praying for both neighbors.
Sorry to be so long. I needed to get this out.
My question, How do I move the barn?
Its on a hill so I think I have to bring in dirt to have the new spot leveled.
Thanks for letting me vent.
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