I too had been wondering why you hadn't come back here after your holiday....Vic, I'm so sorry that things have gone so awfully wrong.
I'm very glad, though, that you have your daughters for comfort--it would be so much worse if she'd been able to alienate them from you as she has her family--I've seen that happen in a couple of marriage breakups and that just makes it all the more heartbreaking.
Please do keep coming to visit with us here; even if you don't much feel like offering your usual wit & wisdom to all of us, we're here for you, always happy to offer our company & what comfort we can.
Take care of yourself, & {{{hugs}}} to you!
Holly