Always best to "follow your gut" -- of course, she'll probably foal tonight - just because you threatened her!
My gut is telling me something's not quite right as she didn't act like this with her last two pregnancies when she was close to foaling.....better safe than sorry to have the vet out. Since I told her that she probably will foal tonight LOL
How is she acting??
She is acting agitated, restless, biting at sides and looking ready to go for the past three nights and then, nothing. There's nothing in the barn or on the farm to disturb her while she's in the barn - as she's the only one and seems to like it better that way. I do know mares can start and stop 1st stage, and only that stage but I'm concerned that there may be a medical reason behind it, and thinking back on it the color (dark red/brownish like dried blood) of the "mucus plug" has me very concerned - she's never had that before with her last two pregnancies, and I've never seen one look like that - which is why I was asking for opinions on it.
Anyway your vet wont induce unless he/she is sure the baby is in the 'presentation' position - unless it is a medical emergency, like her waters having broken etc. And if all looks well, then they may decide that it will be best to wait for nature to run its course.....a lot of folks are not as observant as you and miss all these early episodes! So although I know it must be so frustrating for you, I do compliment you on all the care you are giving to Missy plus your attention to all the details and small changes that she is going through.
We talked about it on the phone today and he will be giving her a 100% exam, plus lightly sedate her for a palpation to see where the foal is. He is coming at 10am and thankfully he is a dear friend of mine so he's put his other clients on the notice of a heads up that he may not be out tomorrow as if he induces he will be here all day until she foals. He told me that since her milk's already white and everything else is already a go, if the foals in position he will go ahead and induce her and get the ball going on her. He's followed her last two pregnancies and knows her very well, and knows that I rarely call him only if I REALLY need him (I have his personal cell number so I can skip talking to anyone in the office, bless his heart I love him to death) and he knows how this is. With her first birth being a red bag and me not being 100% comfortable leaving her in my "mare watchers" hands (they've only helps cows birth - not horses, similar but not exactly the same) he'd rather have her foal while me and him are both there.
You guys will have to understand, I trust this man completely and he's a one of a kind vet. I'm going completely by his advice and guidance and he's trained me to do so many things - he's invaluable to me. He's made plans to where if we do induce, he will stay here at the farm until the foal is up and nursing well, he's a devoted vet and I wish there were more like him! Thanks for the compliment but I must say - this mare is my sweetheart and I'd be nothing without her - she's the only mare I've ever really "loved" and she is such a darling with kids.
OK I have just gone back to your first page and looked at the pics you posted there. I know we all got a bit excited and were looking to welcome a foal before too long, but those pics show a mare some 2 or 3 weeks away from foaling - and May 2nd to 16th (tomorrow) is only two weeks - a seemingly long two weeks, but IMO she is right on course to give you this little one anytime now!!
One thing I will have to note about Missy is she never really V's out regardless of how close to foaling - both her previous pregnancies she was as round as a barrel and hardly "dropped" even the night before birth, so not a way to judge her. Her udders never really "fill in" like a "regular" mare, even after the foal - but she does produce good milk - her colt last year was fat as a tick! The only signs she's shown me in the past have been a loose tailhead and a mood change.
Will be interested to hear what your vet thinks.
As soon as he lets me know his diagnosis and prognosis, I will definately let you guys know!
WILL BE POSTING PICS HERE SOON FROM THIS MORNING