Your little Mya is just as cute as a bug!!
Yes, it is almost unexpressibly SAD that the traditions of years past are being lost due to (a relative few) dangerous and hateful people...wish there were an answer, but I surely don't know one.
One thought, Ashley---down in Albuquerque, a local dentist always offers to 'buy' the trick-or-treaters''excess' candy for $1/lb., then he donates the candy to organizations that send it to our troops overseas, as a special treat...Maybe you could donate what you bought for the 'no-show' trick-or-treaters to such an organization? The Gold Star Mothers, or some such? It would be for a great cause....!
Best wishes,
Margo (who has a great-grandson about the age of your darling Mya...)