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I just came in from burying Sheba; it's been a very sad week!

Sheba came to us 9 years ago from the humane society as a 3 month old puppy, and she grew up to be the best dog we've ever had. Probably the best dog we will ever have! In all her life I don't think that dog ever got scolded for anything. I never gave her any real training, she just knew things. It was really quite amazing! We believe she was Rottie/collie/shepherd cross & who knows what else. There was definitely collie--she had a wonderful herding ability--and she had the rottie body. She was loyal, always stayed home, got more & more protective as she got older. She absolutely adored the Minis & they liked her, she was good with the cats--she learned to hate foxes and saved several cats from being carried off by foxes. She chased coyotes out of the yard more than once, though she was cautious of them & preferred my help when it came to running them off. She wasn't careless enough to get too far from home where they could attack her. When the timber wolves came around she was smart enough to leave them alone--she would have been no match for them.

In recent years we tried many different dogs & puppies, hoping to find one that could follow in Sheba's pawprints and take over guard duties when she got too old to manage. Replacing a dog as perfect as Sheba is next to impossible. Actually, none of the ones we tried even came close. They'd chase horses, or cats (or both)--they wouldn't stay home, they'd hide instead of bark at intruders...it was impossible! We rehomed each & every one of those dogs & thought we'd never find anything to take her place. As she was only 9 we did think we had some time yet--she was getting a bit arthritic, but thought she'd keep going awhile yet.

Sadly, it was not to be. In early April she began to show signs of illness. I took her into the vet clinic the middle of April to have her teeth checked & cleaned. The girl at the desk disregarded what I told her & didn't make any note that Sheba was to be checked before she had her teeth cleaned--and so all they did was clean her teeth, which turned out to not be in bad shape at all. Cost me $165 & didn't help Sheba at all. In fact, it made her worse, as they opened her mouth too much--and Sheba's condition prevented from opening her mouth much. She was having difficulty eating, she could not bark, was snuffling & choking. When she came home from the clinic she was much worse. I got antibiotics for her & those did help her to some extent (made her breathing better anyway) but they sure didn't cure her. The last little while the muscles over her head atrophied. A week ago when the vet (different clinic) was here for our dystocia I had her look at Sheba & she immediately diagnosed cranial nerve damage. Masticatory muscle myositis was a possibility, but ruled out because of which muscles were first affected--that usually affects the jaw & eyes first. In Sheba's case it started on top her head & was slowly moving lower & affecting her jaw & breathing more & more. The vet prescribed some anti-inflammatory/painkillers. After several days they did make her more comfortable, but they were only buying time, not curing her. She still couldn't open her mouth much, and she still couldn't bark, and her breathing and the choking were still a problem.

Thursday we had this same vet back out here to flush our mare, and I asked her to bring along the euthanasia drugs for Sheba. It was much better to have her put to sleep here at home than to haul her into town to the clinic. She hated car riding & except for her trip to the clinic for the teeth cleaning she hadn't been off the place since she was spayed late in 1998. Much less stressful for her to breathe her last here at home. We took her out to the trees at the edge of the yard and did the sad deed there. She is now laid to rest in that same spot.

Here is Sheba in her younger, healthy days:

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I tell you, things just aren't the same here without Sheba!

We do have two decent dogs now--got Kellie first & she was working out fairly well, only she won't bark--her silence was deafening--and living out here with the wildlife we have (not to mention the scary neighbors!!
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Two dogs to replace Sheba, and those two dogs still aren't the equal of one Sheba! Far from it. :no: Maybe in time they will improve. Lucy has been here just over a week and Kellie is young yet, so she may do better with age. It's just too bad that Sheba went downhill so quickly. I had counted on her being able to teach Kellie all the things she is supposed to know!
 
What a pretty dog. Bet she knew it too! I am so sorry for your loss of such a wonderfull girl. Can tell by that pic that she knew she was loved and maybe a tad bit spoiled?
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: At least you have the comfort of making her trip to the bridge easier and peacefull. Hugs! Heather
 
I'm sorry you lost your special girl. It's so terribly hard to let them go when you love them so much; even when you know it's the best thing for them.

The new girls will never be Sheba, but I'm sure they'll do their best for you.
 
I am just so very, very sorry that it was time for Sheba to leave you. I am sure that you did the best for her as she was having issues and you can tell that you loved her beyond your own needs to keep her here.

The two young ones will never replace Sheba but, with time and understanding, they may work out the guard duty you need to have accomplished. I can tell there is a huge hole in your heart over this and you know you did what your love needed you to do for Sheba. Life if not always kind.

Keep remembering the good times you had with her. Her spirit lives on.
 
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aww im so very sorry for your loss :no: she was just lovley....how sad
 
I am so sorry to hear about your Sheba, she was a very pretty girl and she sounded like the perfect dog and I know you will have many wonderful memories of her.I am sitting here in tears, as I read this, our older dog Shado (black lab) is going to be 13 next month, and he is arthritic also, and some days he does have a harder time getting around, he is a inside companion, with his younger pal~~ Angel, who is 2 1/2yrs old. I know if somethinghappens to him, it just wont be the same around here. (((hugs))) to you. Corinne
 
awwww....I'm soo sorry to hear that. Those dogs are much harder to replace than the 'more ordinary' dogs....

She was a very pretty dog....

(((hugs)))

~kathryn
 
I am so sorry.... Sheba was a Sweetie
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What a nice tribute for her.

She was lucky to have you
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Sheba looks like a dog we rescued as well....I'll give her a BIG hug tonight.
 
I feel so much saddness for you. I loved your heart wrenching story about the most wonderful dog you have ever had. It is so easy to realize just how much you loved your little Sheba. What an outstanding little girl. I am so glad that she was able to spend her life with you. She loved you so much.
 
Thanks all!

Tonight while doing chores I was thinking about the time, in 30-some below weather, when our filly Secret was born. I had to carry her to the house to warm her up, the gates were snowed in, I had to carry her over 3 fences. The second of those was quite high (Mom had raised the rails earlier that day) & I wondered how on earth I was going to get that foal over that fence. I sure didn't want to put her in the snow & push her under the bottom rail....on the other side of the fence were two Morgans, curious about what I was doing & very much in my way. Next thing there was Sheba, holding the Morgans off from the fence (she always did that if I had a Mini out & the big horses were there--she'd put herself between the Mini & the big horses & keep them away from us!). I thought well, Sheba is doing her part, now I have to do mine & get over that fence. (I didn't need her help really, as the horses would have backed off at a word from me, but it was nice to have her help & moral support!)

Or there was the time, 3 years ago, when we had our foal losses due to congenital hypothyroidism. I briefly had the one body laying outside, waiting for the snow to go off some so I could bury it. (We had a serious May snowstorm the day the foal was born/died.) We had a dumb pup here at the time. I heard a noise outside & looked out, and there was Sheba, guarding the foal's body from the pup. The foal was wrapped in a plastic bag, but Sheba knew there was one of her little horses in there.

Or the time when Sherry foaled unexpectedly, very early, out on pasture. Sheba was barking and barking until I went out to see what was wrong, and she was all excited, trying to get me to come with her to the pasture. When we got there she went right over to the mare, walked around her & looked at the baby, and Sherry was okay with that. She'd stomp any other dog that got that close to her new foal.

Those are the kinds of things that make Sheba so irreplaceable.
 
Awww.....what a glorious old soul..........there won't be any way your Sheba will be replaced in your heart. She'll be with you always........

Blessings

MA
 
I am so sorry for your loss. I had a Rottie with many the same characteristics, I still miss her.

Robin
 
I am so very sorry.

I'm glad you have so many wonderful memories!

Hugs for you as you mourn your precious Sheba. She sounds like she was truly one of the best!
 

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