Reijel's Mom
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You will be in my thoughts. Thanks for taking such great care of your girl. There just aren't enough people that allow their horse a wonderful and loving retirement.
ok i only got this far and can't read the rest, can't be bawling my eyes out at work... but i have to say i agree. i still feel bad that i left our old horse so long, but the kids were freaking out on me... so he spent an extra couple of months that were not good at all, until they finally came to grips with it. i wish, no matter how mad they got at me, that i had done what was right for him...For me, if this were my horse I would say that it is time. I have come to believe that it's better to let them go a little too soon rather than waiting a little too long. When an old horse does not lay down because she knows she cannot get up again, and if she does lay down she is shaking and sweating from the effort it takes to get up again, that tells me that it is time.
Susan, It's so very hard....she's deserves another 32 years of life! She will leave me today.ok i only got this far and can't read the rest, can't be bawling my eyes out at work... but i have to say i agree. i still feel bad that i left our old horse so long, but the kids were freaking out on me... so he spent an extra couple of months that were not good at all, until they finally came to grips with it. i wish, no matter how mad they got at me, that i had done what was right for him...For me, if this were my horse I would say that it is time. I have come to believe that it's better to let them go a little too soon rather than waiting a little too long. When an old horse does not lay down because she knows she cannot get up again, and if she does lay down she is shaking and sweating from the effort it takes to get up again, that tells me that it is time.
i did feel so much better when it was done and i think you really will too... like you said, some day she will not be able to get up, and then what?
I have a poem at home somewhere, written from the point of view of the horse, i would be happy to share it with you if you want to PM me...