Lisa
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I have a problem that I'm not really sure what to do. My parents are trying to convince me NOT to go to Kentucky. I have always dreamed of going, I've been saving since last January for my vacation this year with the express purpose of going somewhere I really want to go to. I've planned it, I have my hotel booked and I have $1300 in the bank for this trip.
My dad very logically tells me that I need to buy a car as priority one and that I should NOT be going to Kentucky while I'm living at home, trying to get my credit card debt down (my mom will be helping me with that while I'm living with them now that I have a job) and don't have a car. At the moment I feel that if I have to wait for a car in order to go on this trip, then fine I'll wait. I'm spending about $200/month for the train to work. I would likely still take the train to work if I had a car so that I don't have to deal with rush hour traffic.
I know this is logical, but I am being stubborn about going. This may be my only opportunity to go in a very long time. I am wanting to save for a house in the next couple years, so therefore I won't be going on vacation for several years after I get a mortgage.
Am I being stupid? Should I forget about making this dream come true and buy a car?
My dad very logically tells me that I need to buy a car as priority one and that I should NOT be going to Kentucky while I'm living at home, trying to get my credit card debt down (my mom will be helping me with that while I'm living with them now that I have a job) and don't have a car. At the moment I feel that if I have to wait for a car in order to go on this trip, then fine I'll wait. I'm spending about $200/month for the train to work. I would likely still take the train to work if I had a car so that I don't have to deal with rush hour traffic.
I know this is logical, but I am being stubborn about going. This may be my only opportunity to go in a very long time. I am wanting to save for a house in the next couple years, so therefore I won't be going on vacation for several years after I get a mortgage.
Am I being stupid? Should I forget about making this dream come true and buy a car?