Ashley knows me well and she is right!
Within the five years or so that we've been showing miniature horses I've had three of our five children and being pregnant has never slowed me down and I never had anybody say much about it other than "WOW are you big, when are you due?!?". Everybody was really nice and supportive about it and I'd get lots of people offering a helping hand if I needed it. I got lots of comments about how "skinny" I was this past show season and the reality is that it was the first show season that I wasn't either pregnant or still working on losing the extra baby weight from having recently had a baby so everybody finally saw the "normal" me. I've always gained a lot of weight when pregnant (60-70 lbs) so the biggest challenge was finding stuff to wear that fit. Mostly instead of buying expensive maternity clothes I just went up several sizes and found cheap used stuff like blazers or dressy shirts at second-hand shops and borrowed stuff from friends and wore everything with black maternity pants. My kids like being shown the show pictures when "they were in my tummy".
Our youngest child will be two years old in May and I showed two weeks before she was born (in halter, driving, liberty and I think I might have even done a hunter class) and then we went to another show when she was two weeks old. She loves the horses and likes nothing better now than being in the barn around them, and will choose horse toys over dolls. She definitely has the love of horses ingrained in her!
My doctor was very supportive of me continuing to do everything that I normally did as long as no pregnancy-related complications came up and felt that me staying active and moving was very helpful for staying in shape and having an easier delivery and also made it easier to recover and lose the weight and get back in shape after giving birth.
Whenever we did go to a show while pregnant (especially the one two weeks before my due date) we did make sure we knew where the local hospital was and had directions on how to get there and had all of our medical information with us. We always knew who at each show was a doctor, nurse or EMT in case the baby decided to make a surprise appearance at the show!
I didn't do anything i'd consider risky and all of the horses I showed while pregnant were really well-broke. I did think the horses somehow understood my condition too just like they seem to understand when a child is showing them. More cautious or gentle in some way. The most difficult thing? Body clipping horses. I'm not great at it anyway and having a big belly in the way and making me off-balance and awkward didn't make it any easier.