What an excellent idea for a thread!!
New Mexico is, generally, a high cost of living, low income state--or at least, that's what I've read, heard, and experienced! I would say, here, that anyone with children would struggle if making less than $30K/year...and I would PERSONALLY consider any single person w/ no dependents who has less than $20K/yr disposable income as essentially 'poor', from a financial standpoint, at least...and "Middle class',for the same type person, to begin at around $30K disposable income, and go up to around $80K...above that, here---well-off. JMPO.
That said, of course 'most' real estate isn't as costly as in, say, CA, or other places with a host of features that many find desirable...exception is probably Santa Fe, and certain areas near Albuquerque....
I am on a very modest fixed income. I live frugally, but because I have planned ahead, I AM able to continue to keep and enjoy my miniatures and the things I love to do with them--at least for now. Due to a modest inheritance from my mom nearly 30 years ago, we were able to pay off this house about half way through the mortgage(a POWERFUL incentive was that mortgage interest rates were in the 9-10+ % range when we were transferred here; we HAD to do all we could to mitigate those longterm costs, and did, when we could!). I don't have all that much in savings, but I have NEVER regretted paying off the place.
Pepi made a good point. Some of us choose to live VERY frugally in many areas where others spend more freely, in order to have resources for what we truly LOVE to have and do.
Margo