Perhaps not exactly - but that is the nature of such threads - ANY threads on ANY forum. They wander a bit around the actual topic. I did not see anyone picking or poking at
MRM - just sharing their experiences the same way they would for ANYONE starting such a thread. Rainbows and sparkles and glitter and smiley faces are fine but that would not be giving the OP an objective answer or helping them in any way,.. and when we know
MRM from past threads, it is only natura that we reply to her as best we can with her situation in mind.
I could nod and smile and say foaling is the best thing EVER and the babies are OMG so soft and fluffy and frisky and so very cute and nothing ever goes wrong or ever costs any money - and I would be lying and sugarcoating everything.
MRM - breeding one yourself is often far more expensive than buying one - and one iffy experience should not keep you from buying from a reputable breeder if everything was as you have represented it to be. You picked her out at some point - did she change in between when you chose her and when she arrived? Is her breeder on this forum? If so - that may not have been an appropriate comment.
ETA: I just realized from
Make A Wish's post that you may not have seen her in person...
Many horses in a new environment will carry on and scream for a while - newly weaned or not. Dealing with settling in a new horse is far less difficult and stressful than foaling out a mare. Also, if you are buying one you can pick exactly the sex, conformation and colour you want... instead of winding up with something that may truthfully not be what you had in mind. Breeding your mare is your choice - and that is fine - but you need to do it for the right reasons and after considering every angle.
There has been good advice here.... please do not just ignore it. But I am not sure that we should be commenting on any of the stallions now that you have announced their names...
should we?
As
Ruffian said - you need to pick your mare apart and see which stallion will improve on her the best! And asking for input amd suggestions is always a good idea.