I don't believe KayKay was saying anyone had been mean. What she meant was that it's hard to give an honest opinion on these types of threads because many people misconstrue and think others are trying to be mean even if they aren't. There is a lot of sugar coating and dancing around certain points.I'm with dreaminmini -- I saw no offense taken, only people other than the OP discussing various perspectives on what exactly "cow-hocked" means. I've found it to be one of the more interesting discussions of late. Somebody disagreeing (or discussing different takes on the issue) with your critique is not the same as taking offense.
Whether asking for or giving a critique, one must be prepared for varying opinions.
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