Hi. I was thinking of Chevy Chase in National Lampoons christmas vacation when his boss deleted his bonus. Nothing funny about it though when it really happens to you. I worked in the same job for 32 years and know how it feels to count on a yearly bonus. ours came in March and it was great to pay off the credit cards from Christmas. They always told us that the bonus was just that a "bonus" but magically it still came every year. We expected it, just like you do, really felt like if we did an outstanding job year after year, that this was something we earned. Then the economy got stinky... and 550 of us were told that we were losing our jobs at the end of 2010. I pouted, I cried and I got mad and stomped around complaining to anybody who would listen. Why... because after 31 years of continuous service, I was coming up 1 year short of my retirement benefits. Then one day a nice lady from HR told me a great story about victims and players. She said if I continued to mope around, whine and cry and complain, that I was not helping my case one bit. Told me to quit being a victim and become a player and work hard and fight for that extra year I needed so badly. She was right.... I took classes on how to do an interview. Got counceling on how to write a resume.. went to all the company sponsored help that was offered, put a big smile on my face and worked my butt off. I worked hard when everyone else was walking around saying things like "why should I... what are they going to do, fire me??"... Fast forward to end of year... expecting to leave... lo and behold a temporary 1 year job was posted. I interviewed for it, had command of my attitude after a year of working harder than ever even knowing I was leaving,.. keeping pace and smiling. It worked... I felt so much more in control from being in the player driver seat all year. Well... yippee... I got the job... that job got me to my 1 year mark, and I exited December 30th 2011 on the same day I qualified for my benefits... my 55th birthday. Ironically not long after I exited (severance/retired) I got my final bonus. LOL, sure wasn't expecting that. Long story, but my point isn't to tell you to suck it up that you are lucky to have a job... my point instead is that even when you feel crummy and cheated... you can turn things around by getting the player attitude. The player attitude can open doors and also make you feel better and more in control. When you are in control and happy and working hard, sometimes those bosses can change their minds about bonuses... They will not change their minds at all if you are in victim mode..
I got a tough boss for that last year, but I thanked her every day, smiled and worked my buns off for her. My opinion is that somehow when a door closes, somebody opens a window. You just never know. I did carry a "dorrie the fish" (nemo) little flash light in my pocket every day and when it got really tough I just started singing "just keep swimming, just keep swimming" Hang in there lady, chin up, look for your window.. you will find it. Find your peace and don't let scrooge ruin Christmas for you. Just keep swimming..