Sue, your husband is such a doll! I have no supports groups, but I am here if you need me. I know how anxiety can be. I have PMDD and I have meds for that similar to what you are taking. I would tell the doctor that the idea of switching meds when Xanax is working is really stressing you out and you would prefer not to switch if at all possible. Remember, they are there to listen to you, not the other way around, no matter what they say.
I hope you guys got the Electricity fixed. If not, call out an electrician and have him put your mind at ease with a clean bill of house health! It would be worth it!
stacy