We know of a lady around here that has lost lots of horse business (boarding, breeding, training, etc.) because of how she has treated other people in the past. We considered her a "friendly acquaintance" until she blew up at my husband last year over something absolutely rediculous.First off, it is a sign of immaturity and you will have a very hard time trying to find anyone willing to deal with you because of it no matter how many times you apologize.
We know of a lady around here that has lost lots of horse business (boarding, breeding, training, etc.) because of how she has treated other people in the past. We considered her a "friendly acquaintance" until she blew up at my husband last year over something absolutely rediculous.We basically try to avoid her now, and know of lots of others who do the same. It's pretty sad, because she has/had a lot to offer, and there are very few people that we have a hard time dealing with.
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i went outside and cooled off and i came back here and read everythingi have to say i'm soooo sorry to EVERYONE!! i've been very stressed lately and i can see i've been taking it out on you guys, and i'm soo sorry for that! i hope you guys can forgive my rudeness and stupidity and continue to answer my questions and help me learn. even though i dont deserve it. i wont be rude ever again, if i am then tell me because sometimes i dont realize it. i'm sooo sorry!
Everyone makes mistakes - even us old hags!Sorry, just couldn't resist as that was, while being insulting, just about one of the funniest things I'd heard in a long time! So thanks for the chuckle. But more importantly, it's take a very mature person to come back and say "hey, I was wrong" no matter what the subject matter at hand may be. We've all lost it a time or two and we all will again. It's human nature. It's how we handle the future instances that shape us. Did we learn from the past? It sounds like you have. Please continue to ask questions because we ALL learn every time one of us asks a question.
If it's any condolences, I'm only nearing 22, but feel like an old hag. Im almost 37 weeks pregnant and feeling every bit of it. lol
I was under the impression youths couldn't show stallions?
I'm sorry, but any youth, of any age, should not be handling any stallion OR mare in a breeding situation. I have taught hundreds of people how to collect and breed stallions, from college age up to professionals, and it is not a job for a youngster without a very experienced mentor watching over every step and experienced animals (that the mentor is very, very familiar with). Stallions are very dangerous to the unprepared. A little credited fact is mares in breeding situations can be just as dangerous, if not moreso, than the studs! I've been hurt many times in my breeding career, and so far (knock on wood) its always been by the mares. A youth, especially lacking adult, EXPERIENCED, supervision, should not be breeding. Period.
You said that you probably wouldn't get hurt because the neighborhood kids led your stallion around and had no problem. That's nice but remember you have two mares who will come into heat and your stallion is going to react to that. Has your stallion dropped both testicles? If he hasn't then of course he would be calm for the neighborhood kids. Just a few things that this old hag thinks you might want to think about. Just remember a mini may be small but you can still get hurt especially by a stallion.
At the risk of being called an old hag...
A yearling is not "too young" to show heat - I've had several fillies show at 8 or 9 months old!
Only one of your mares is breeding quality, though - right? Didn't I read somewhere that you said one of your mares is a minimal dwarf?
Make double sure you have some good strong fences, with a space between them so that the mares and the colt can't take them down and get to each other! The mares are as bad as the stallions sometimes... when they're in heat, and when they aren't and they think the stallion needs to die!
If your folks have drafts you must have decent fences, the only thing I've had that's harder on fences than draft horses is cows - or goats!
By horse size panel fence do you mean Panels like used in a big horse round pen? If so a small mini can get out of those especially if a stallion wants to get to a mare.
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