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Sanny

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Just thought I'd share this, got it in an e-mail and some of it brought back memories!

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they were pregnant. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes.

Then after that trauma, we were put to sleep on our tummies in baby cribs covered with bright colored lead-based paints surrounded by stuffed animals.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took hitchhiking. As infants & children, we would ride in cars with no car seats, booster seats, seat belts or air bags. I remember STANDING on the front seat with my arms resting across the seat back.

Riding in the back of a pick up on a warm day was always a special treat.

We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.

We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this.

We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank koolade made with sugar, but we weren't overweight because .

WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING !

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on.

No one was able to reach us all day.

And we were O.K.

We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 150 channels on cable, no video movies or DVD's, no surround-sound or CD's, no cell phones, no personal computer! s, no Internet or chat rooms.......

WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents.

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.

We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays, made up games with sticks and tennis balls and, although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes.

We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just walked in and talked to them!

Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team.

Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!!

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of.

They actually sided with the law!

These generations have produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever!

The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned

HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL!

If YOU are one of them . . . CONGRATULATIONS!

You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before we had to worry about our children's safety and about protecting them from all the horrible stuff we see every night on the news and before the lawyers and the government began regulating so much of our lives for our own good.

(I had to edit to add.....I would be HORRIFIED if my own children did all the things I did growing up and took all the risks that my friends and I did in our "early years". I think it is probably sheer dumb luck that we made it to adulthood. I'm also sometimes dismayed about the things that my own mother still thinks are "OK" regarding babies and children in spite of what we all know these days.)

And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave (and lucky) their parents were.

Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn't it?!
 
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I grew up in Bridgeport Connecticut, the second largest city in the state. I lived on the corner of a very busy Avenue and a very large side street.

My gang played baseball in the street every night until dark in the summer time.

Nobody ran us over either.
 
I am a child of the fifties- BUT

there were NO cars so I did not get run down

There were NO strangers, and, had a stranger come down our street I would have run away inside.

There were not half the strains of bugs around that there are nowadays.

There was not half the number of people there are nowadays.

Even though we lived in a seaside town where people flooded in at weekends, we were safe on the beach.

When we went, alone, to get ice cream, if someone had approached us and disturbed us, other strangers would have run them off- people were not afraid to interfere, and would have been thanked by my parents, not berated.

The one time I did wander off I was found an hour later on the next beach, playing with a little boy.

My Mother had told me to stay put if I got lost, so I did.

Children, on the most part, did as they were told, and were PUNISHED (imagine that!!) if they disobeyed.

They were not reasoned with.

Reasoning with children under a certain age is totally pointless.

Explaining is another thing entirely.

We had EVERYTHING explained, but NOTHING was open for negotiation.

So, for the most part, we obeyed the rules.

So, for the most part, we were safe.

This is not so nowadays.

Just a footnote...my Aunt died, age two, of Pneumonia, because antibiotics were not yet invented- so you were, actually, far from safe, and for some things at least, i would not go back to those days.
 
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Oh my I do need to let my boys read this ... (may be not because I did most of it)

I would be HORRIFIED if my own children did all the things I did growing up and took all the risks that my friends and I did in our "early years". I think it is probably sheer dumb luck that we made it to adulthood.
You and me both!! I grew up in Clearwater Florida and we (at age 11) would ride our bikes over the causeway @4 miles to the beach spend the day and come home at dusk! NO WAY in heck would I consider letting my boys do that!! ((Note...this was a VERY bad thing because we didn't have sun screen and I am so paying for it today with multiple skin cancers removed every year :no:)) We lived next to a big golf resort and in the evenings all the neighborhood kids would go over and play "SPUD" and "kick the can" what fun we had and ofcourse whoever had a pool always had someone not related swimming in it at any given time - sometimes even when parents weren't home :new_shocked:

When I got my car we would spend every non-school night cruising the beach looking for guys
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: I had a curfew and was NEVER late. I knew what was "wrong" and just didn't do it (always felt like my mom would be watching and didn't want to disappoint her).
 
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: I'm a 50's kid. We didn't have tv until I was in third grade. We had the 1st on the island. The viewing started with the 6 oclock news and went off with the 11.
 
I grew up in Bridgeport Connecticut, the second largest city in the state. I lived on the corner of a very busy Avenue and a very large side street.

My gang played baseball in the street every night until dark in the summer time.

Nobody ran us over either.

I grew up in Huntington! What a small world LOL Mom worked at Bridgeport Hospital. We moved out in '84 for mom, '88 for me.
 
being a child of the 50's and 60's, we took tests in school but never spent 6 months studying for them so the school looked good.

We took aptitude tests, but they didn't always do much good, Girls weren't allowed to take shop or auto mechanics or drafting. And the boys didn't take home ec.

Everyone had gym classes all thru high school.
 
Yes, I too remember those days when most people actually took accountability for their own actions and everyone wasn't suing each other for ridiculous reasons. Like Jane said,

Children, on the most part, did as they were told, and were PUNISHED (imagine that!!) if they disobeyed.
Could I go on? You bet! No wonder society is so screwed up.
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Yes, I too remember those days when most people actually took accountability for their own actions and everyone wasn't suing each other for ridiculous reasons. Like Jane said,

Children, on the most part, did as they were told, and were PUNISHED (imagine that!!) if they disobeyed.
Could I go on? You bet! No wonder society is so screwed up.
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Amen to that!
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On a lighter note, for the moment though...
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My cousin, Nancy, and I would ride and ride and ride our horses from dawn till dusk on weekends. Nancy was like my “big sisterâ€, and just as HORSE CRAZY as me. My mom and her mom (sisters), would always call us “the two peas in the podâ€. If she was gone off somewhere on horseback…I was always right there, and vice versa. Sometimes we’d even go “wilderness exploring by moonlight†out in Hackney Prairie…which is sadly now nothing but HOUSES! What used to be miles and miles of trails, orange groves and lakes are now driveways, back yards and retention ponds.

We used to ride our horses from Ocoee to Clermont..going down HIGHWAY 50 the whole way, sometimes even stopping in at the McDonalds drive-thru (on horseback) for a snack. The horse always LOVED their own order of french fries and/or Ronald McDonald cookies! NO WAY would I attempt that feat nowadays. Traffic is horrendous and chancey enough in a vehicle, and McDonald’s will no longer allow “pets†on their premises…unless it’s a pooch or something that’s enclosed within a vehicle that’s passing through.

It’s strange to me sometimes to now see, when folks are out riding their horses, or driving their minis, for that matter, LOL, they more often than not, are now wearing HELMETS. A safety measure that is a “good thing†for change. We never wore helmets for riding our horses or our bikes. Helmets weren’t even invented yet, I don’t think, LOL. They were, but in “our world†they didn’t exist yet, LOL. I remember one time we were racing through the orange groves and a flock of birds flew out of the tree tops and spooked our horses who were running full blast in one direction one second and did an about face to the opposite direction in the next second. Meanwhile, “we†were both still going in the original direction of our race…but not for long. The ground came up awful fast to nix that right in the bud!

Another time, again running full blast through the groves, my horse decided to take a split second detour under a low branch that he fit under PERFECTLY. Gave new meaning to the term “tree huggerâ€.

Another time, I was by myself excercising a friend’s new mare for her. Had her open in a full run…going through the groves again, and a tractor darted right out into the isle way that I was running down, the mare mare went left, I went right, her back hoof somehow caught me in the back of the head. Next thing I know, when I woke up, the man from the tractor was holding the mare in one hand, and wiping blood from my head with his other hand. Asked me a funny question…if my recollection serves me right, it was something about if I ever heard of a silly thing called a “helmet†or something.

So, some changes for safety’s sake, that have evolved over time, are wise…though, shamefully admittedly, I still don’t hardly ever use ‘em much. Just when I ‘have toâ€, in order to participate in activities where it’s “requiredâ€, LOL.

As far as surviving life through moral issues… well… I grew up with FIVE BROTHERS and through them I learned well…mostly of what NOT to do. No way could I put my mom through the things they did. I never so much as even skipped school, I loved school. Well, I did skip school just one time, in my Sr. year of High School. It was “tradition†for Seniors to skip school on “Senior Skip Dayâ€â€¦a day randomly chosen by any given Senior…just cause. My two closest friends, Cathy, Pam and I all got together and when we decided on a whim to go for it, they came over to pick me up for our great adventure. Then before I could actually do it, next thing I know, I’m on the phone calling my mom at work and asking for “permissionâ€, LOL. She laughed hysterically and said SURE! I was shocked, but HEY…now I could enjoy my “deed for the day†guilt free.

All my brothers were quick to point out that I had totally missed the “whole point†of “Sr. Skip Day.†Suited me fine though, LOL. We packed our lunches then rode our horses down to the lake and swam all day, and had a BLAST!

Which, btw, was right in the peak of the onset of OFFICIAL “gator conservationâ€, but before any sort of regulations were set to safeguard the critters from extinction. They were nearly wiped out back then, so swimming in Florida lakes was “okâ€â€¦for the most part. At least for here in Central Florida. Not sure on that in other parts of the state. But, NO WAY would I try that nowadays. Those giant lizards are running rampant again, FULL SWING! I spend my lunch break nearly every day down at the old lake I used to swim in as a child nearly every day…and they float around the boat docks all the time. I stay in my truck!!! Had a run in with one of those things when I was 5, traumatic is an understatement! I don’t even wanna mess with ‘em! Darn regulations!!!! I know the “natural balance of things†needs to be safeguarded, but they’ve overpopulated way above and beyond any “natural balanceâ€, as far as I’m concerned. Just about can’t turn on the news anymore without hearing of yet another gator attack, rarely survived.

Anyhooo…

On the more serious note to survival in today's society through moral issues, as mentioned above...things sure have changed from "way back when". Way too deep a subject to delve into for the moment...but boy could I chime in with you on that.
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Like someone mentioned earlier, some things have changed for the better, and some, it’s just so sad to know those days are long gone. That’s progress though…time marches on, things change. Some bad, and thankfully, some good too.

It’s like that song…

You take the good, you take the bad

You take em both and there you have

The facts of life…

Hmmm…wonder what Tootie and Natalie are up to lately, LOL!

Ahhhhh, the good 'ol days....
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Okey-dokey, back to workey. :saludando:
 
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Well, I survived the 70s and did just about everything on that list that a kid could do.

I spent most of my time with my best friend, so mom had a pretty good idea of where to find me.

I remember when I was a kid, my best friend decided to run away... She ran around the block, she wasn't allowed to cross the street. :bgrin We actually listened to our parents, even when we were trying to do something we shouldn't.
 
[SIZE=10pt]What a GREAT thread!! I was born in 62 and also did most of the things on this list with a few more things to boot. Things are so different now-a-days, but I am trying hard to keep things "simple and grounded" for my daughter. Easier said then done I know...[/SIZE]

Lori
 

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