Carolyn R
Well-Known Member
For those that recall the story of my mare suffering a very sudden tramatic eye injury in January.....I am happy to announce that my girl Stevie will have two months of training completed and will be returning home on Monday. She has amazed me and opened my eyes to how much we as owners may label a horse that has an injury or handicap but life truely does go on for them. She is doing amazingly well, she will see what she can get away with in the ring when it comes to groundwork and thats to be expected with a three year old, but she is fabulous on the trails. Her trainer refers to her as steady Eddie. I have been on her quite a bit these last two weeks, in the ring and on the trails, her trainer even rode out on the trail with a green horse, as in his first time out on the trail. Stevie was great, did not feed off of his insecurities or spookiness at all.
Her trainer is wonderful, not only training the horse, but taking time to evalute the owners working with the horse and give instructions on what she has observed, and how to counter certain behavior. I could not ask for a more dedicated, vigilant, or knowledgable trainer.
So, once again, if down the road anyone is searching the archives because they are considering a horse that has an injury of this magnitude, or they have the unfortunate luck of the draw, and have a horse that has lost an eye due to injury.....all I can say is , take a deep breath, the guilt as an owner and "allowing it to happen" does subside to some degree, as for the horse, they can still enjoy life and have a purpose and may surpass your expectations by leaps and bounds. Remember, horses live in the moment, there is no remorse or regret, no self pitty or vanity, they do not say life was so much better before my injury, poor me, they do not mope or make excuses, life goes on and they enjoy it. MOST OF ALL don't let anyone convince you that the horse is now a throwaway or it will be impossible or unpredictable and incapable of being trained. She is my dream horse, I never expected my dreamhorse to end up having one eye, but she amazes me and has a very special place in my heart.
Her soon to be buddy Cal (Excalibur) will be coming home in a couple of weeks and I will be sure to update you all.
Thanks for letting me share.
Her trainer is wonderful, not only training the horse, but taking time to evalute the owners working with the horse and give instructions on what she has observed, and how to counter certain behavior. I could not ask for a more dedicated, vigilant, or knowledgable trainer.
So, once again, if down the road anyone is searching the archives because they are considering a horse that has an injury of this magnitude, or they have the unfortunate luck of the draw, and have a horse that has lost an eye due to injury.....all I can say is , take a deep breath, the guilt as an owner and "allowing it to happen" does subside to some degree, as for the horse, they can still enjoy life and have a purpose and may surpass your expectations by leaps and bounds. Remember, horses live in the moment, there is no remorse or regret, no self pitty or vanity, they do not say life was so much better before my injury, poor me, they do not mope or make excuses, life goes on and they enjoy it. MOST OF ALL don't let anyone convince you that the horse is now a throwaway or it will be impossible or unpredictable and incapable of being trained. She is my dream horse, I never expected my dreamhorse to end up having one eye, but she amazes me and has a very special place in my heart.
Her soon to be buddy Cal (Excalibur) will be coming home in a couple of weeks and I will be sure to update you all.
Thanks for letting me share.