I agree tagalong!
THERE ARE RULES BECAUSE.........
There is a difference between FB and LB. FB is owned by many and can't be sued if someone starts something personal or "goes" where they shouldn't. LB is owned by one lady, who pays for it out of her own pocket so we ALL have a place to talk about and learn about little equine. She has been threatened, and threatened to be sued in the past about things members posted.
Some people like "bear baiting" to get their kicks. Some like gentle conversation. Someone is always going to either get bored or their feelings hurt. On a site that has over 6000 members, ML tries VERY HARD to please everyone! It can't be done! But she always listens to people and works hard trying!!!
ML has done her best to have something here for everyone. Including a free sale board. So there's no need to post about having a horse for sale on the forums. There's a sale board for that! The only way ML can keep LB going is through paid advertisers. And they would not pay to advertise if everyone was posting away about what they were selling all over all the forums.
LB is a family place with people from all ages and personalities. Debates are fun! (I enjoy reading them myself) But when they get heated or personal (and they did) people run to ML to complain. What then is ML supposed to do??? Either way LB gets a bad rap from one side or the other. I don't feel that's fair.
See, all of the above are the REASONS there are rules here. Why there HAS to be rules (which most people here don't read)
I'm just afraid all of this will give ML one too many headaches and make her throw up her hands and shut LB down. I would rather have LB any way it has to be than not at all.
LB is a place for little HORSE people to come together. This is a forum FAMILY. I for one would be lost without it.
If people want to go to other places to talk about other stuff etc, they know that if they have a question or need help with horses, LB is always here.
LB is like a HOUSE with a HUGE family under one roof. That's why there has to be house rules.
Thank you ML for EVERYTHING.