Hi....
Alot of your situation about what to do next would depend on the contents of your contract. You need to have a very thorough contract and cover as many bases as possible...for everyone's protection.
I have seen contracts that say no more than " I am selling you a palomino horse, a mare, on such and such date" and both parties signatures...that contract was not worth any more than the paper it was written on...ha ha. There is no way to properly identify the horse, the terms of the sale, etc.
In the event there is a payout agreement...I have in my contract a clause that states IF there is non-payment or a payment is over 30 days late with no written notification that a late payment is going to be made and approved and accepted by the seller, then BUYER is therefore forfeiting the contract, any rights to ownership to the horse, and any monies already paid on the horse immediately. Otherwise, if your payout is over a year long or something, you could very well be waiting a year to sell the horse again by trying to the right thing.
I also go over the contract with the BUYER in detail before sending it to them. I have a place on there that states they are accepting or declining a pre-purchase exam. If I let someone pay it out, they must insure it and I have all the insurance info. on there as well. You cannot cover too many details... I have the terms of payments, any boarding, any further fees (breeding or vet, etc), shipping details, all broken down on the contract. If they are to arrange and pay for shipping, it needs to be noted.
For your case, if you had a clause in there that made the point if "if you are more than 30 days late on a payment and you cannot have the courtesy to let me know the problem or situation and let us work something out, then I can consider the contract defaulted on and pursue other avenues at once." Of course, you should try your best to contact them and see what is going on...which it sounds like you have. IF you are dealing with someone under 18, then just like everyone said, if they press you, you will have to return the money already paid down on the horse. I would always talk to someone by phone anyways to see what sort of arrangements they had in mind for shipping, what was expected in the agreement or contract, etc. BEFORE I would send them the contract to sign anyways. I don't like surprises and I don't want the client to be surprised in any way either. That way when you do send them the contract, they know what to expect it to say before they even read t and sign it and hopefully you have already answered any questions they may have about it. They should feel as comfortable as possible (as well as yourself) that they are making a sound agreement.
Unfortunately, if you do not have a clause or statement on your contract about what happens when a late payment or non-payment happens, then you should probably wait until the end of May to re-sell him. Also, I have had a couple of people back out on contracts over the years and I did this...just to kind of show I was trying to do what was right....when re-selling the horse...I sold him for the DIFFERENCE of what I had priced him at originally and what had been paid on him already by the person who defaulted on the contract initially. Foe example...I sold him originally for $2000 but the purchaser only paid $500 on him. After the contract was defaulted on, I would then re-sell him for the $1500 still owed on him originally. That way it makes it obvious that I wasn't out to make a buck off of someone the first second they were late with payment. And if the initial purchaser ever does contact you in the future...you can say well I resold him but I only sold him for the amount that you didn't pay me in the first place.
I know your frustration when you do let someone make payments...and usually (I never have) charged any kinda of interest on top of it, and then the purchaser doesn't hold up there end of the deal...agh! Rcently I had someone was to pay an somewhat pricey horse out $100-$150 a month...how can you possibly do that? Then they get upset with you but I have to wonder did you really expect me to "finanace" a horse for 4 years or more???? I keep looking for where it says FORD or Chevrolet on my horses somewhere...ha ha ha ha.
Funny thing...I had a woman that PAID for a horse, and for months I could not get her to come and pick her up! Very rarely do you have that happen...ha ha. And the woman lives in the same town! We finally had to get the Sheriff involved and he had to drive over, tell her to be there at a certain time, and we took the horse over there (she takes really good care of her animals so I do not understand what her deal was..lol), Sheriff made her sign a piece of paper that said she received the horse in good health, etc. on his suggestion because she was being such a dingbat. He signed it as well as witness....
Goes to show...no matter how hard you try, you will still have those wonderful folks that just won't cooperate...just make sure your contract you have signed covers all the bases...what else can ya do???
Best of luck!
Bobbi Kay