Well - it is interesting reading everyone's opinions. I have been ripped off many times with the purchase of miniature horses. I do know that it will never happen to me again - because I plan to sell all of my horses and walk away from this part of my life. I can't trust anyone - whereas I tend to be way too honest (if that is possible).
I plan to have the filly checked by my vet to make sure that there isn't anything else going on in her mouth. She is undershot - not overshot - that is why I am so concerned.
I used to breed show dogs and stood behind my breeding program 100% - and I am the same with the minis - but I guess that isn't the way that all breeders feel!!!!!
Thanks for the words of encouragement. I am not new into the breed - I did lots of research and homework when I first started into minis. I have spent a lot of money buying the best that I could afford - and I do have some really nice horses. But I have had way too many bad experiences and although I totally love and adore the breed - I am at a point where I need to move on. I believe that the breeder of this filly would try to rectify the problem - but to ship this filly back will likely cost me $1000 to $1500 and if she replaced this filly with another one - the cost to ship that horse here would be the same. So my original investment which was high (especially in the market today) would have another $3000 tacked on to it - and for what? It is difficult to sell anything in this market - unless you are one of the "big" breeders.
I have purchased a horse that was starving (she was represented as being "thin" when she was actually emaciated) - and when I posted about that mare (and the seller still posts lots on this forum) - my posting was deleted. I never once mentioned the mare's name or the seller's name - as I didn't want to cause a scandal - but when the seller found the posting she told the whole world who she was etc and the posting was deleted.
I purchased a lovely bred mare from a breeder (far away from me) and when the mare foaled a 24" colt I questioned the breeder on the stallion and it was only then that she mentioned that the mare had "gotten in" with her shetland stallion - why wouldn't she have told me that before?
The list goes on and on. Obviously I am way too trusting and that is a fault of mine.
I had someone inquire recently about a mare that I have for sale - I told her all of the good qualities about the mare and also told her what the faults of the mare were. She commended me on my honesty and couldn't quite believe how honest I was. She didn't buy the mare - and that was OK with me as I don't want to sell a horse to someone that isn't exactly what they really want.
I know that there are honest people out there - and I have bought some very nice horses from honest people - but there are too many out there that are happy about making a sale and what happens after that they really don't care about.
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I feel for you and My heart goes out for you!
I remember the mare you bought that was *thin* - I just want to THANK YOU for sharing that. I was considering a horse from that farm, and decided against it after your post. I don't want to support a seller with bad ethics.
Also I'm shocked about your 24" foal - what came to be of him? A major discount or rebate should have been in order!
I have bought one horse on a very trusting level and the horse was coming from a "name" breeder - and I WAS pleased when my horse arrived (The horse was a bit rough around the edges, but nothing that couldn't be helped with time and patients. ) I've also got one that I was not pleased with, who came from another breeder.
My first real purchase, when I was more green, turned out fabulous - when I
didn't ask the right questions, The seller went above and be on, telling, explaining, and showing me these things. This breeder and I STILL keep in contact regularly even after she is out of breeding.
I try to match any horse I have offered for sale with the right person. I have lost sales but I feel good at heart. I had a colt for sale with no real interest with him intact, and JMHO he wasn't
Amazing stallion quality, just decent so I gelded him and I am now offering him as a youth horse as he has a heart of gold. I've lost a lot of money on this colt, BUT he
will make a kid very happy and that is what matters to me.
I urge you to stay in the business if you can bare it - More honest people like you are in high demand... but you are right, there is little money in it - just bills
Again, I'm so sorry for you and this poor filly!