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How sad and terribly disappointing for you!!!!

WHen something like this happens I know it is so hard not to think "if only", you poor thing..... such a long wait and so much anticipation.. I am really sorry for you.
 
I am so so sorry. I know how you are feeling. I think it is the things like this that show us how fragile life is, so we can appreciate the healthy little ones.

Susan from Hilliards, has heard this story, I will share it with you. We bought Camper from her as a weanling. I so wanted to add champagne to our program. We put him with his first mares last spring. Just three weeks, after being with them he fell ill. The local vets, two of which I think are very good, could do nothing. We took him to Coosa Valley Clinic two hours away...... and lost him a few days later. I still had hope that we would get a foal from the mares. After he had been gone a few weeks, I realized, we had not yet had him DNA tested, and the clinic took care of his remains after the neocropsy, which revealed nothing. After checking with them, I found the clinic had retained a single blood sample. I talked with AMHA and UC Davis, they agred to do the testing using the blood sample. On Feburary 16, we went to feed in the afternoon and my favorite mare Cheyenne was rolling by the barn. She had lost her foal, a few spot leopard by Camper.

It was wreck for days. The little colt this morning sure seemed precious, even though he was not sired by Camper. We still have 3 mares that may bring us a Camper foal. I am still hoping and praying for it.

Just keeping loving the ones you have, they truly are special. Again, I am sorry for your loss.
 
Robin,

I am so sorry you lost your special filly too.

I had one one time that I felt that way about and I cried and cried also over him. He was a tiny replica of my tiny stallion Creamy. Then a few years later I lost Creamy.
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Raising minis as we so often say is not for the faint of heart, but dont give up.

No matter how hard it seems sometimes I can't imagine my life without them.

And Levon, I am still hoping and praying that you get a Camper foal ths year!!

Susan O.
 
I have tears in my eyes from reading your post as I feel so sorry for your mare , her lost baby and for you.

It is such a long wait to have a foal and then not to have the baby in the end is just so hard. Foaling can bring many heartaches and it is not all candy & roses by no means. Give Muffin a hug from me and one for you too.

Joyce
 
Thank you all SO much. You've really helped me cope. I know pretty much everyone looses foals, lord knows we've lost our fair share. It always tears me apart, but this was different. With my girls I tell them what happened and they are sad but ok. But Muffy, I had worked with a long time to get her trust. When people come and I introduce them to the horses, Muffin scats. Even Karrel can only pet her half the time. But she has become "my" mare and she trusts me. It tore my heart out that she followed me from horse to horse with her nose at my side. And each time I turned she was looking up at me asking for her baby and nuzzling my hands. She was even chasing off the other mares who came to see me like she thought she was guarding her baby that she thought I had.

You know how lost at birth foals look at little funny? Not this filly! She had a lovely tiny head. Her legs were straight. She was beautiful! Since both parents have blue eyes, I wanted to see if she did too. They were not just glazed like one who was born alive then died, her eyes were milky so I know it was her cord death that caused her "birth".

I'm still not done crying yet. I went out to see her today and I thought at first she would not talk to me but she did. I loved on her and dripped tears on her nose. I'm so glad she's ok. She's very clean and looks good. I hope she knows how much I love her.

Levon, I hope you get a Camper baby, or 3! I know just how you feel.

{{{{Hugs}}}} to everyone. Thank you for being here for me. It means so much.
 
Aww Honey,

She knows how much you love her and it sounds like she loves you as well and is worried about you.

It is hard for non-horsey people to understand, but it seems like those days when I need them as much as they need me, they know it and at least one always gives me a nose to kiss or like you said, follows me around at the hip just waiting for me to need to scratch them. It seems as if they return the favor for all the times we have helped them.
 
I'm so sorry for your loss, Robin, hugs to you! ((((hugs))))
 
I'm so sorry Robin! I know you're giving lots of hugs to your mare but here's one for you too!

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Robin....I am SO sorry for your loss....I know how distressing it is and you are probably blaming yourself a bit too as is the nature of us. DONT! Muffin is loved by you and you by her....allow yourselves to greive....then start planning for her future foal. (((hug))))
 
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It is one of the saddest feelings. Iam so sorry.

Ginny StP
 
I am so sorry for your loss. Big hugs to both of you.
 
Oh Robin, I am so sorry Muffin lost her little filly. That is so sad for you and her. Please know that you are a special person and your horses know that too.
 
So sorry Robin. Thinking of you.
 
<<hugs>> I am so sorry for the loss of your little foal, it is so hard to see that little body and it not move. Just not right in any way. I will keep you and your mare in my thoughts, be sure and give her some hugs, maybe it will help you both. :no: So sad.
 
I am sorry for your loss. It is heartbreaking. Bless you.
 
My dear Robin,

I know this one hits you hard! I know how much you expected this baby.

But, like I wrote you before, if you want to, Muffin can have another Magic Baby next year.....

It's so terrible and painful every time, you loose one of them.

Love, Marion
 
I'm so sorry for your loss.

(((((HUGS))))) for you and Muffin.
 
Oh, Robin, I'm so sorry!
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Why is it always the ones we most anticipate? Hugs!

Melba
 

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