By the time you know there's a problem it's often too late! Just like your girl with the tire in the earlier story...once they've blown up, it may take ages to get them calmed down again and if they get hurt in the process you might never get them driving. In a pair it's double the risk as you could ruin or injure two horses and they can feed off each other's panic until you've got a real situation on your hands even with a helper. It's so much easier just to break things down into small steps so you KNOW the horse is good with each one and prevent the problem in the first place.
It's not so bad with an experienced horse mentoring a green one as you have, but in my case for instance the experienced horse had never been used in a multiple hitch so I didn't dare cut corners. He's got a temper and if he'd over-reacted when the baby pulled something I could have had a real problem.
Leia
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The Spotted Toad ended up head first in a hedge the other day....maybe I am going back to ground driving again for a bit!
He drove in the pipe cart today and exploded three times- right up to the point where I got more than a little cross- I have no desire to end up in that hedge with him- and I gave him the full range of my "BAD HORSE" voice. He walked round the field after that, but he is still huffy.
The only pair I have ever done we did mostly the way the gypsies do- I am NO admirer of moth gypsy horse breaking methods as the accent seems to be on "breaking" and anything over a year old is fair game (reminds me a lot of the Amish community in this way
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We had the experienced horse harnessed as usual and had the inexperienced (in pairs) horse attached by a halter to the collar of the driven horse. There were LOADS of steps I have missed out here, before this happened, and I have to admit to going cold all over when my slightly crazy friend told me she had, in my absence, been actually driving out along the lanes like this!! Still, what doesn't kill you and all that, but I would NOT suggest this as a viable or even sane way of actually starting a pair.
In this case it worked and they went like good 'uns- never did put either in blinkers- one had never been in them and the other one was happier, even at 17, without them.
The best pony pair I ever met- and the owner then went on to expand to a four in hand- was a pair or full brother, entire section B Welshmen. They shared a stall - double size. When she got the next two (as youngsters) she took down another wall.
They lived together all their lives, and went out together every day. Smart little greys- looked fantastic as a team and SO together.