Hubby and I were just discussing that we have never in all our years seen such a divide. It's everywhere for sure not just these forum threads. And it will be our downfall. This need to be right at all costs on all sides will be our undoing.
kaykay - I was asked by relatives in Canada what the difference was between political affairs here in the US and there. Sadly, the answer was easy and obvious...
anger, hostility and venom. People spar and argue about issues in Canada - French vs. English, East vs. West - but it
never gets to the level of anger I see here - not just on this forum but
everywhere. The radio. The street corner. Having been through 2 Presidential elections here, I have been amazed at the vitriol that is unleashed. The hypocrisy all around. The name-calling. The viral emails that went around during the 2008 campaign were at times very disturbing - and what made that worse was that people rushed to embrace them as The Truth. No matter how bizarre and impossible the alleged conspiracy or incident was. The big picture is rarely examined - instead there seems to be be a kind of partisan, fingerpointing tunnel vision.
Too many assume that everything is black and white (or Red and Blue if you prefer), Right or Left when things are mostly grey and in the center unless one is an extremist at either end. And very few of us reach those extremes.
Passion is laudable. But when it escalates to venom, it sours.
There needs to be more than two "sides". More than two or three "parties". How on earth can a country of 312 million people be narrowed down into such limited points of view? IMO it can't be - hence the anger.
kaykay - threads have sunk
much, much lower than this.
This one is mild compared to what went down in 2008 - that resulted in such threads being banned for awhile...
BTW,
Jill & James - it is a very weak argument to say things like... (only quoting
Jill as she mentioned both versions at once)
You mentioned that people coming up to you at a show to remark favorably about your posts to me. I follow up by letting you know that people are also talking to me about this "situation" and asking me what's wrong with you.
...from both "sides" of a discussion... why on earth resort to comments like that? That just comes across as a neener neener kind of thing. State your own opinion and concerns without bringing in alleged phantom "support" as a way to attempt to validate what you are saying and continuing to sneer at the other person.
You sound like two kids during recess at school -
everyone told me that they like me and you suck!!! So there!! Oh yeah, well everyone told me that they really like me and think that you are a big old meanie... and you suck even more!!!
edited for clarity