I just want to comment on Jill's stuff; honestly she ISN'T trying to be mean and she is speaking from experience. I have always respected that Jill showed for many years before getting into breeding. What Jill speaks of is what I wish more thought of. I'm a huge gelding promoter (and like you Molly, gelded my "stallion" when he wasn't nice enough for what I wanted to breed for) and have had as many geldings as I have had mares. If I could, I'd geld 80% of all the mini stallions out there
I'm even looking to buy another gelding now if I can. But again, that is me
. I'm am really picky about stallions too, and I really have to agree with Jill in many ways.
It's not to pick on you - I promise.
Each and every single person is very different. Jill showed for many years before breeding, as have many of my good friends. I'd say that I too showed before getting into breeding, and will continue to show until I and very old and grey.
I also know of many young adults who breed their horses - Although most that I know of, do have an extensive show record to back it up too. Erica was very young when she got into breeding, but Erica has skills beyond her years in that area
. I don't think you should be flamed for breeding, especially if you are using an out side stallion - IMO, best way for new breeders to start out with - as you'll be able to get a world of new show tittles and bloodlines to add to your herd. You can really compliment your mare this way too.
So please don't be angry with comments like Jill's, there is so much truth and support in what she is saying. Help come in many forms.